I just can't take their bitchy attitudes anymore, as much as I find them attractive. I think I just want to stick to hot sex with guys for a while - much less maintenance involved. Who's in NJ?

Just be great full your not married. Been married for 14 years I can count on one hand how many times we had sex (after saying I do then they say I don't have to.) you are so right about sex with guys no head games.

It's funny to read about married people that don't have sex. Such a shame that divorce is punishable by stoning to death and there's no way out of it to enjoy what little time on Earth you have left.

I'm afraid you are all too accurate about the 'stoning to death' thing --

The only winning move is not to play.

Oh I AM married......... separated living in the same house..... the WORST situation ever.

Please get counselling. There is hope and help.

Women hope marriage will change their man.
Men hope marriage will not change their woman.

Often, both are disappointed.

I'm in the same boat. If my wife goes before me, I'm going to go all male. Just so much easier.

We have had counseling, we've done marriage conferences, even done small group marriage improvement crap. In every case, my wife was told that sex is important to the marriage and she should enjoy pleasing her husband. I've tried romantic stuff and it worked. We made out like high schoolers. Then I watched my wife masturbate with her vibrator to several screaming orgasms while I jerked off.

Divorce is not an option as I'm not real fond of paying alimony and child support and still not getting laid. Also don't want to be a part-time dad. I love my daughter and would not be able to do the weekend dad thing.

Those of you who have wives that like sex, count your blessings.

do you guys find it strange that noone has written a book for young men warning them about how women become asexual after marriage. We all go down that road ignorant as hell, wish I had known my wife would decide she didn't need sex after 6 months of marriage. Wouldhave changed my life. she does try, I have to give her credit there, but her sex desire and mine are so different. Women get married for companionship, children, and just to say they have a husband like their friends; we get married to have a sex partner. the old saying women are from Venus, men are from Mars in tnot to far wrong. No one ever tells the young guys this!!

I think the real problem is even bigger than sex.

Saying you will do one thing - ANY one thing for the rest of your life, no matter what, is a bad idea. And if it involves another - person? Worse still.

Would you get on an airplane with only a 50% chance of not crashing? Those are the divorce stats.

Marriage is just a bad idea. I don't know why anyone still does this.

After my divorce my friends all asked me if I was going to get attached again. I told them ab absolutely not and if I needed a woman that I'd just go find a hooker because with a wife you continually pay for it every day and with a hooker you pay for it and then they leave.

Hey guys I am just amazed at all the unhappiness I have been reading here. But it all really makes pretty darn good sence. Woman have to many of women or girlfriends that fill their heads full of does and don't that they do in their lives, you see so many going on these TV talk shows and trying to get help with all their gang ups and some get help by telling the true in what is going on with them, the rest lie out their butts and never do changes.
I was engaged to a young gal when I was 29 and we both were pretty darn horny all the time screwed and ducked like to minks in heat. Heck she wanted poked when she was on her periods, the missions were endless, when we wasn't together we had phone sex and hellash phone bills. But we never made it through all the family battle and other bull shit, we seperated after 3 yrs of unhappy ordeals. I desided it just was to much, I did try a pen-pal program with women, that ended up costly me an arm and leg, after that I tucked my tall between my legs and decided to admire cock from a safe distances and I am getting to old to enjoy the finer things much any more, but I sure enjoy reading these amazing hit stories and stroking my hard cock.
Good luck, but yourself a good ego or a Fleshlight and a good sized bottle of good water based lube and find yourself a jack- buddy and go have a good cum party, shoot your load where they land and enjoy life, it short that we realize at times( life that is) happy jackin.
One more added thing I've enjoy a good hard cock as a pre-teen and the into my teens had school and neighbor buddy's best darn fun I ever had, even as an adult 2 guys together can make each other more satisfied that any woman could ever do, same thing for 2 women they know their g-spots and enjoyment places more than a man does. Why we were made this way I gave no clue. That all I have will leave you all alone now. Stroke it easy and long.

I guess I got lucky. My wife still loves fucking and sucking and swallowing cum, has had lots of FMF 3some fun with me, and let me fuck other women when I wanted to. And that's after 22 years of marriage.

We're still getting a divorce, but it's not about sex.

Don't get discouraged if you're not married--lots of women remain horny and sexually active for life.

This topic alone makes me realize this forum is no longer for me. It screams out "I want to draw attention to myself." Go have sex with men for Christ sake. If you can give up women because your wife or girlfriend doesn't want to have sex as often as you do then most likely you wanted to be with men anyway.

I thank you for posting this nonsense because this is the push out of this ridiculous forum anyway. So many of the topics are about truly stupid stuff now anyway.