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BenK_80 Amateur Jackinchatter

168 posts since 2013-12-09
42 year old curious from Ireland
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He's not far from me and a couple of years older.
We exchanged some emails, then dick pics. He's well hung, probably 7 or 8" He seemed to like what I was packing too! Into the same kinda porn.

Got his number eventually and plucked up the courage to call. Seems like a really relaxed, decent guy, who just likes his porn. Got an apartment to himself in the evenings and I plan to make a visit this week. Just to be on the safe side, I told him Im completely str8 and just looking to share some porn and relax. Not sure how I'll react when Im there so I thought it was best to say that initially in case thats how I end up feeling. But truth is, I love the look of his big cock and probably want to at least work it for him and maybe suck on it! smile

So excited and nervous! Any thoughts, advice welcome. I'll report back after!
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591 posts since 2006-09-05
77 year old curious male from Portland, Oregon
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Sounds like you are up for a fun time. I recently got together with a guy I met here and we got naked and watched porn together and after beating off a bit, started jacking each other, then rubbed our cocks together and he unloaded his cum all over my hairy chest and belly. Yummm!
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Go for it!
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I'm the same way. I like getting to know the guy a little bit before we hook up. I find in Craigslist most guys are into the anonymous quick hook up.

One thing I probably wont get over is when we first meet in private the first couple mins I think they are going to kill me! LOL!

It's all good though! Gotta be patient.
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168 posts since 2013-12-09
42 year old curious from Ireland
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TXscotty said:


One thing I probably wont get over is when we first meet in private the first couple mins I think they are going to kill me! LOL!


YEAH...........LOL...........

erm. Thanks for that man!
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401 posts since 2009-07-18
65 year old curious from SW North Dakota
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Just relax and let things progress. You will probably find he feels the same way. Hope you both end up with each others cocks in your mouths. strokestrokestroke Please keep us posted
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Maybe meet in public first?
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Do let us now what happens!
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Hope it goes well for you. It has for me. But then I read stuff like this and wonder if its worth it.

http://www.latimes.com/nation/nationnow/la-na-nn-michigan-killing-20140721-story.html

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L2JMD247 Novice Jackinchatter

11 posts since 2014-07-21
heterosexual from Los Angeles
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You have to be realy cautious on Craigslist. Alot of sketchy, nasty people, playing games, misrepresenting themselves. Lots of pros, escorts, hookers, etc. too. Hard to tell who's real and who isn't. People want to rush to meetup without speaking on the phone or meeting in public first. How else are you going to get a good indication of who you're dealing with?

I totally understand caution and discretion because I'm cautious and very discreet. I've posted ads for looking for a regular jo bud, but I'm very real, don't have any hidden intentions, and I also don't write vague ads. I can't stand that place, although I was very lucky to have met my last jo buddy on there... but we also talked on the phone before we met up.

You have to be so careful ANYWHERE, not just on CL. Seriously, what happened to the GOLDEN RULE?? We all need to be real and respectful of each other. It's just common courtesy. And it's pretty basic stuff.
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The most important thing is don't rush, and don't let anyone push you into doing something you're not comfortable with. It's important to feel comfortable, so just go at your own pace and be very cautious. Watch out for red flags. Meeting in public is definitely a smart and safe approach. That way you can have a natural conversation and just bat the tennis ball back and forth and see if there's a genuine connection. Taking your time getting to know each other is critical.

Good luck with your search man. Hope it all works out.
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Dude, you really need to head the warnings about CL and being careful. Just saw a news story of a guy and girl killed by someone they hooked up with on Craigslist. Apparently, they were either looking for a 3some or just someone to watch them or do her, but he apparently killed the guy by beheading him and then tortured and killed the girl. SO REALLY know who you are dealing with before you take any chances.
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Of course that's the case when meeting anyone. Remember the BTK killer? He was a dang minister. You have to use good common sense, but don't go through life scared. No risk, no reward.
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L2JMD247 said:
The most important thing is don't rush, and don't let anyone push you into doing something you're not comfortable with. It's important to feel comfortable, so just go at your own pace and be very cautious. Watch out for red flags. Meeting in public is definitely a smart and safe approach. That way you can have a natural conversation and just bat the tennis ball back and forth and see if there's a genuine connection. Taking your time getting to know each other is critical.

Good luck with your search man. Hope it all works out.



This reply absolutely nails it! And don't forget, this guy is probably every bit as nervous as you are and that nervousness won't wear off in 5 minutes. So just take it easy, try and relax and find out if you and this guy really are compatible.
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Hey buddy, good luck with the meet, I agree it would probably be easier to meet for drink and chat first so that theres no pressure on either of you. But im sure you will have a great time. I need to get down to Dublin soon, its been a while.
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