What do you do if your son asks you about jacking off do you show him video's or what ?????

I think you answer his questions about masturbation and sexuality in general and honestly (age appropriate of course) Most likely he'll figure this out on his own (Most of us did as it's just so natural) I would point him to resources of respected sources online but probably not show him videos or give him lots of resources that you don't have faith in as being good, healthy resources.

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