Hey guys, I for one consider myself an heteromantic asexual. But I love jerking off and watching porn. Lately I've been aroused by seeing big hard cocks in action on scree and makes me jerk off cause I wont deny those are nice cocks. But I get bored a lot cause I want guy friends who are like me, watch porn, love jerking off and seeing hard cocks. Would I be considered gay if I get hard from seeing cocks? where can I find friends like me?

You sound totally normal to me.I see no need to have to label yourself unless you want to.

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Do you want to hold hands and have romantic picnics in the park with other dudes? If so, you're gay, if not, you're just a very open minded sexually adventurous guy.

You have almost anyone here that shares on J/C that feels almost the same way. I myself have been the very same for many years now. There are so many different ways to define what gay is all about. So many think it is an illness but both genders can have the very same feeling for the same sex or genders. When I was much younger I felt as if I was completely straight, desired female companionship and on occasion to date or engage in sex in my dreams. But having male friends and engaging in different curious things with them wouldn't mean you were gay unless your doing anal sex, kissing and engaging in action as if you were making that other male desire you in desiring ways. Very big difference I feel. Might be wrong but every mans entitled to his opinion. If you feel a need to chat any drop me a line or two.

dude, unless you are turned on, that is get hard at seeing a sweaty muscular guy in the gym and want to stick your tongue down his throat, kiss him for hours take him home and have him butt fuck you all night then make him breakfast in the morning....you get the picture, you're not gay just a guy who gets fired up by the porn fad in your head at the moment. you may next see a super cute BBW and find yourself rock hard at the thought of sucking and licking her huge tits.that will be your fat chick phase. on this site eventually you'll find someone else into your current kink if you post enough.

I fully agree - I've been married for over 30 years and yet I can get hard at the thought of jerking off with a guy who feels the same way. I know for a fact I'm not gay and the thought of kissing or cuddling a guy totally freaks me out. To my mind being gay is about having emotional feelings for other men whereas getting your rocks off with another guy is just that - its about sexual stimulation and gratification. Nothing more.

Being gay is when a person would only have loving, romantic feelings, and sexual arousal with a person of the same gender.

I am a guy who can have very hot sex with females and males--I even love to get fucked--but I am not aroused by the sight or even thought of two guys kissing and cannot imagine being in love with any male. For me, MM sex happens mainly down below--little or nothing above the belt, such as kissing, could happen--whereas MF sex involves the entire package. So I am technically bisexual, but since I don't feel love and intimacy for any guy, I am not a "complete" bisexual.

I have long believed that there should be a term for those males and females who are primarily heterosexual, but can truly enjoy some homosexual relations. Let's make one up. How about bbbisexual (below-the-belt bisexual)?

Am straight an even I see a big cock in porn or sometimes on here, can't help but be turned on by them but it not my front runner in preference.

That will always be woman even if they do annoy me at times I fancy them and not guys which is what I'd consider it to be about.

You can wank and suck a hundred cocks and still be straight - that's just physical. Where does your EMOTIONAL bias lay - who do you want to fall in love with? Who do you want to share your life with? That will give you your answer.

Less than some, more than others?

As the Kinsey report said there is no straight line between gay and straight - we can all enjoy sex with both genders and not be "gay" - it depends on the emotional feeling as several others have said. You aren't gay just because you get horny looking at other guys cocks - lets face it its not only womens bodies that look sexy, there are lots of sexy guys with very sexy bodies that lots of men enjoy looking at.
I am married and love women but I can also enjoy getting horny by seeing a sexy naked guy or a stiff cock.
Lets a;; just enjoy our sexuality to the full and not put labels on everyone.

There is a lot of wisdom on this board. I'm glad you put the question out there so you could hear from guys who have been around a little longer.

Your just a wanker like me mate. Just enjoy it

Amen!