When playing with someone, on cam or not, do you prefer to be in charge and direct their actions or do you submit control and let others direct you? I'm just curious to the balance that we have here on Jackinchat. Thanks!

I find that both ways are fun. Guess it depends on the mood at the time.

I like to be directed...

i like to get on with my own thing at my own pace

I love being directed, especially when the lady, or guy has me try something kinky for them.

I'll do just about whatever I'm told, within reason... biting, bondage.. yay!

Hi Secret, Very nice question. I like both. But more so being told.

Secret: ... and, your preference is ...?

Both....depending on who it's with...(you know who you are )

I know....

Only once did someone tell me what to do. At first it was fine but then it started to get a bit out of line and made me uncomfortable.

I prefer to give pleasure by telling my cyber partner what I am doing to them, and having them just lay back and use their imagination and feel the words on their body. If you're good at visualization this can be just like having the person there with you.

Going by my name I guess you know what I like.

Tell me what to do.

I don't mind a request here and there, but I find that having someone send a constant stream of instructions on what they want me to do to be a bit off-putting. For me, it's most fun to just go with the flow of the moment, and yeah...sometimes that means one of those here and there requests, but a stringent series of instructions? That just doesn't do it for me.

I'm used to being in control. I have a very masculine appearance and most of the women who've been into me wanted to be physically dominated.

That being said, the first day a woman took control and commanded me, was one of the horniest days of my life. I wanked 5 times that day. So, by habit, I assume women want me to be in control. When they take control, it's the biggest treat imaginable. It's always been a huge fantasy of mine to be an instrument of a woman's pleasure, to feel that she knows what she wants and wants me to do what she says...to direct me to fulfill her desire.