Hi Guys,

Here's the situation... I have not had sex with my wife for over a year (various reasons, some her medical condition).

I masturbate a lot obviously, and have toyed with lots of other ideas, paying for sex, finding a wank bud, massage parlour etc.

I love her and will never leave her.... but i need sex!!

All suggestions greatly received!

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In a similar situation, it's a really hard thing to deal with. Obviously, if you have the drive, you need sex. It's natural for humans to want sex and I feel it's a necessary requirement after food, water and shelter. The longer I've gone without sex, the hornier I get and the more open I am to finding a jacking bud and experimenting- just sex, just to get off. Then when I do have sex with my girl I feel better and those urges go way down. For some reason I feel like getting a hooker or massage parlor by a girl would be cheating. Obviously, hooking up with a guy would be considered cheating too, but for some reason I'm more ok with it. I guess, my girl is the one girl for me.

Anyway, I know how you feel. I've been there. With that said, don't give up. I got a hj and fucked my girl yesterday I was starting to think it would never happen.

Btw, I have found masturbation alone does not satisfy that urge for me. I can jack off 3 times a day and I still have a deep hunger to get laid.

Have you talked to your wife about this?

Thanks Guys keep your thoughts coming.

Greg

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