Happened a number of times in early years and maybe a couple dozen times since I got married. But no, getting a BJ felt good, but didn't make me gay.

My first proper sexual experience was being sucked off by an older man when I was 15 and cumming in his mouth, never expected that to happen if I'm honest. Didn't have another male experience until I was 40. Have dabbled on and off with playing with penises since then and often watch grandpa porn, but given the choice I do prefer women.

Have had a few bjs from guys since my teens even though I have only dated and married women. Never really occurred that it made me gay, labels never really meant anything to me.

Of course the first time a guy feels a penis enter his mouth he says to himself "Wow, this is so much better than lapping a smelly, slimy gash!" And presto: he becums a cocksucker--gay or not!

It doesn't make you anything that you were not before. You are what you feel you are. M/M sex is a preference - what you feel about the social culture will put you where you want to be.

Who cares just enjoy it

If you enjoy sexual activities with men and women (or others), or you enjoy fantasising about sexual activities with men and women (or others), regardless of whether it's 10/90, 50/50 or 90/10, regardless of whether you'd get into a full-blown romantic relationship with the other person, you are bisexual.

The world would be a much happier place if people weren't so scared of the B word. It's amazing how some people on here are prepared to label themselves Straight, Straight-Plus, Flexasexual, Straight-But-I-Like-Cock-Sometimes... but as soon as anybody suggests they're bisexual they say, "Oh, I don't like to give myself a label - I just enjoy what I enjoy!"

I don't enjoy anything physical with guys. But at the same time, I'll see a profile pic on here and think to myself "that's a nice cock". I also like to jerk off with a buddy while watching porn. I find lesbian porn absolutely boring. And tag teaming a woman with a friend is amazing much more fun than one-on one sex.

So even though I'm not into anything physical with guys, there is an attraction on some level if I like those other things.

Completely agree with this. I love jacking with buds, talking about nice cocks, seeing them in porn, but have no real interest in doing anything with them. I'm not taking anything off the table when I'm right in the mood, tho. Who cares what one calls themselves, just enjoy what you enjoy.

gettin your cock sucked by guy doesnt make gay but kissin orbut fucking or huggin does

Now THAT is probably one of the best analogies Ive seen. Well done!

Yes, obviously getting a blowjob will mean that you will wake up the next day to find you are married to man, love Broadway musicals and talk like Julian Clary.

if you get a boner looking at a man, you may be on the way

Yes it does

John Wayne did.