A question for the more experienced dudes out there:

Just met this girl and we've been seeing each other for a few months now, everything is great, she's attractive, nice, we share similar interests, etc. We've had sex and she's pretty passionate in bed except for one thing--she hates giving blowjobs. I talked with her about it and she says that she feels like it's kind of demeaning (she's a staunch feminist) and that it's uncomfortable for her (makes her neck and jaw hurt). Now I'm the kind of person who can usually make sacrifices and compromises but I LOVE nothing more than a good blowjob, even more so than regular sex. My ex-gf was a total bitch but she gave amazing, aggressive, blowjobs (deepthroat, sucking my balls, etc.) like she was making love to my cock lol. What should I do? Is there any way to get her to change her mind or feelings about giving head?

Buddy you've seen both types of women. Some just LOVE giving head and taking a cock deep in their mouth, taking a load and really giving us a good bj. Other women just hate taking a cock in their mouth, don't like the feel, taste or anything about it. Being honest man, I'm not sure you can do anything to change her mind and that might lead to a relationship without getting head, maybe ever, or at least for the duration of the relationship.

These are the reasons that I have found guys/men give better head. Guys who suck cock do so because they enjoy it and want to. Best head I've ever had is from other guys.

NO I'm not saying that you need to find a guy to take care of that need you have. I'm simply pointing to the differences between men and women when it comes to giving head. I hope you can find a way to resolve this man, we all deserve and enjoy a good bj.

Get a new girl friend.

Does she expect you to go down on her?

ripped.... great question man. If she's gonna lay there and accept oral, giving it back is only fair.

I've been with both sides of that coin, those women that love sucking dick, and those that really don't care to. one girl I dated would give me head any time I asked (and even when I didn't ask) on the other hand one girl I was with didn't care much for the task of giving a blowjob, I would pretty much have to talk her into it but as time went on she did become more willing and would even offer me road head on occasion which really caught me off guard the first time. just my opinion but if it makes her jaw hurt she just needs more practice

She enjoys it when I do it but doesn't necessarily expect it or demand it per se. However if she does come from oral it's usually lights out a few minutes later.

Thanks for the encouragement. Man, it looks like bi and gay guys have it easy, they never have to worry about finding willing sex partners or pregnancy. Us str8 guys have to run around circles just to get a half-assed bj!

A relationship without BJs would suck, you might be ok without it now but a couple years down the road and you're balls will ache for a BJ. I aw
Always want my gf to be pleased during sex and oral sex, when my gf goes down on me it gives me a chance to have some "me" time and let go of everything else. Its 2015 for fuck sakes if ahes not willing to go down than SHES the selfish one.

My neck gets sore when I go down on my girl but I dont care cause its 15 mins and its about HER not me. Tell her to suck it up. (no pun intended lol)$

I had a similar relation when I was in college/grad school. She just hated blow jobs. Not sure why she did but at that age I was happy with any kind of sex. Just got tired of all the restrictions and stuff she would not do involving sex. Finally I just walked away. Told her our desires were no longer compatible. I suggest that you do the same before she finds other things not to do...............

Hate to say it when you're bummed - but you're right. Those of us that are bi/gay usually have no trouble getting what we need and don't have to worry about pregnancy. We DO still have to worry (and almost more) about STD, HIV and all the other nasty stuff out there.

+1

Walk away whilst you can and find somebody more in tune with your desires.....it will lead to a happier life..

You're still young. If its a big deal to you, you might want to get out of the relationship while its still early.

Otherwise, if you really like this girl you may want to give it a chance.

Get a new girlfriend before you are in the relationship to far or give up the though of blow jobs and other sexual variety that is normal.

What does she not like? Do you take a long time and / or not warn her when you shoot? She may just need some coaching on how to handle the beans n frank