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You're not likely to convince her to change her mind. The way I see it you have 3 choices. Get used to not getting head, dump her, or go out and find a good whore on the side who will suck it for you.
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Bet it's ok if you go down on her. Find a new gf
And away i go
futurepornstud said:
A question for the more experienced dudes out there:
Just met this girl and we've been seeing each other for a few months now, everything is great, she's attractive, nice, we share similar interests, etc. We've had sex and she's pretty passionate in bed except for one thing--she hates giving blowjobs. I talked with her about it and she says that she feels like it's kind of demeaning (she's a staunch feminist) and that it's uncomfortable for her (makes her neck and jaw hurt). Now I'm the kind of person who can usually make sacrifices and compromises but I LOVE nothing more than a good blowjob, even more so than regular sex. My ex-gf was a total bitch but she gave amazing, aggressive, blowjobs (deepthroat, sucking my balls, etc.) like she was making love to my cock lol. What should I do? Is there any way to get her to change her mind or feelings about giving head?
A question for the more experienced dudes out there:
Just met this girl and we've been seeing each other for a few months now, everything is great, she's attractive, nice, we share similar interests, etc. We've had sex and she's pretty passionate in bed except for one thing--she hates giving blowjobs. I talked with her about it and she says that she feels like it's kind of demeaning (she's a staunch feminist) and that it's uncomfortable for her (makes her neck and jaw hurt). Now I'm the kind of person who can usually make sacrifices and compromises but I LOVE nothing more than a good blowjob, even more so than regular sex. My ex-gf was a total bitch but she gave amazing, aggressive, blowjobs (deepthroat, sucking my balls, etc.) like she was making love to my cock lol. What should I do? Is there any way to get her to change her mind or feelings about giving head?
I don't understand. Dump her. Nothing worse than a relationship with shitty sexual chemistry. Plenty of girls give head. No reason to tie yourself to one who doesn't.
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It could be worse, it COULD be your "WIFE" that doesn't like giving head!
Dump her :-)
Dump her :-)
Dump her.
like going out for a drink, tell her u are going out for a blow job.
go for anal, its the other mouth.
go for anal, its the other mouth.
I do love getting jackMail so turn me on....
If this is truly how she feels she will never change her mind. One question though, how does she feel about you giving her oral? In my experience they all loved that but would not reciprocate in the least. It's strange but some women really find nothing appealing about putting a penis anywhere near their mouth. If this is of real personal importance to you I recommend you consider this issue now before you become deeply involved with her. I've been there and done that. It's no fun and the longer it goes on the less fun it will be.
One final note : if it's her feminist views that prevents her from doing this then she's got serious problems you can't fix. Feminism should be about liberating women to be freely sexual not constraining nor repressing them.
One final note : if it's her feminist views that prevents her from doing this then she's got serious problems you can't fix. Feminism should be about liberating women to be freely sexual not constraining nor repressing them.
No cum is wasted.
You are so right, in my case it WAS MY WIFE...Like so many of us we stayed together for years. I was frustrated but forgot about it until we separated..drought ended....
take my advice, it will never work if its important for you, its easiest to get a new one!
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My problem - we're generally great together, but -
she has the gene that makes bitter things taste 10x more bitter
she was raped and forced to perform oral sex. Thanks, fuckhead.
Thankfully, having never really had one to completion, I'm not hung up on BJs. Probably never should, for the same reason I don't test drive a BMW.
she has the gene that makes bitter things taste 10x more bitter
she was raped and forced to perform oral sex. Thanks, fuckhead.
Thankfully, having never really had one to completion, I'm not hung up on BJs. Probably never should, for the same reason I don't test drive a BMW.
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lovetostroke77 said:
Eat her out like a free buffet and once you feel she is enjoying it, slowly switch to a 69 position and see what she does.
Eat her out like a free buffet and once you feel she is enjoying it, slowly switch to a 69 position and see what she does.
absolutely I agree...thats exactly what i was thinking...get her going good with your tongue, then flip your leg around and tell her "suck me baby, show me how good you're feeling" if she dont, she's a selfish bitch...just being blunt
If she takes a load of cum up her ass that might compensate for it.
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Dump her ass. There are too many chugging hotties who'd enjoy doing it. If she's merely your gf now and that goes anywhere in time, do you want a spouse who is averse to taking care of business, even if only occasionally? I don't know anything about you, but I'd venture not.
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if she's hot and shares all your interests then just put up with it.The world is full of compromises and maybe this is one you might have to make.
What should you do???
Easy!
Find a new girlfriend or boyfriend.
Easy!
Find a new girlfriend or boyfriend.
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