I want a J/O Bud like you mentioned- nothing further than that.

I'll go along with this.

New member here - second post ever. So excuse my naive question:

What do JO buds typically do together?

I'm straight, but intrigued...

Usually watch porn.
Wank themselves.
Wank each other.
Maybe oral.

And that's it. No kissing, no cuddling, and certainly no anal.

Could be different for others but that's been the pattern with straight j/o buds I've had.

[quote=monkee]Usually watch porn.
Wank themselves.
Wank each other.
Maybe oral.

I want to try this for a long time but not able to find a like minded person in my region.

Thanks to mete and monkee for your replies.

I'm definitely intrigued, and will look into it!

I've posted in other threads that JO clubs are really interesting and fun. NY Jacks, like some other clubs, has a page of links to similar clubs. If you're anywhere near one of these, by all means, go to one of their meetings. It's an exilarating experience, plus a great way to.meet others who are definitely interested in our, uh, hobby ;-)

http://nyjacks.com/index.php/links

It can be frustrating but worth it in the long run. After a long dry spell, I was able to connect with a married buddy in my same boat (married, bi). We've now had two meets - the first was just stroking and the second led to mutual oral. Knowing the guy and not having the first meeting awkwardness is so great - we both felt so much more relaxed the second time and we both shot huge loads!

So be careful lot's of guys out there will try to take you much further just because you like cock.

That's what I'm afraid of

Agree. It's either wanting to do more than I'm willing or finding place

I have never run into a situation where a guy would not take NO for an answer. If the guy wants to do more than you are comfortable with, tell him so and he will stop. Maybe you won't want to see him again, but no big woop there. Finding a guy who really just wants to masturbate together is difficult and so is finding a place - especially if you are both married. You just have to keep looking.

exactly. i mean i want jo buds but im open to lending a hand.but yeah, stroking, having fun, chillin naked. but then they say they want to put their cock in your ass. no thank you lol

You could try silverdaddys. Always meet in neutral location and get rules worked out before. When you are about to shoot your load it's hard to say no. Just Jo for a few sessions and look for signs of STD's or if you can each of you get tested at a local clinic $100 or so bucks are worth not bringing home something you can't explain or can't get rid of.
Once let a guy give me a blow job at a glory hole in bookstore, 5 weeks, 4 different antibiotics and one night in the hospital due to an allergic reaction took care of the infection. So beware.

Id guess for every 25 guys I end up chatting to via Craigslist, 1 turns into a meet.

Ive met a couple of guys from hear too, probably 3 in as many years.....

Work the numbers - thats what I do.