I like mine slow and gentel. Most all the vids I see, He seem to be wanting to set a speed record....just sayin'

Nice and slow but building up to a crescendo. Even better if the woman's tits are out and she's talking utter filth whilst looking me in the eye.

By co incidence I saw the woman who gave me my first ever (adult) wank. a couple of weeks ago. Her name was June and her method was to stroke cocks until her hand was almost a blur. She wanked a few of us guess off at a party; I was 18 at the time and June was, well, quite bit older. I hadn't seen her for years until I was in a local pub last month and June was having a party for her 65th birthday. . I wonder if her wanking technique has slowed down over the years?

I think it depends, but mostly I think I want it pretty fast. The slow and gentle can be quite the tease though. My wife sit on my leg some times, taking my cock in both her hands, lube up and just rub the head of my cock with her tumbs. It take quite the time for me to come, but when I do it is a geyser.

I like to be masturbated slow.

Just as long as it goes on to the finish either is good for me

I love It hard and fast and the harder the better.The thought of someone jerking me hard has me stroking fast right now.

Slow unless the tension is too high.

I think a carefully timed combination of the two is the way to go...certainly if you want to make it last as long as possible in any case. Moderately fast strokes to start with, building in speed and intensity as the excitement climbs and then perhaps a dozen measured slow strokes, easing the pressure on the need to cum and then back to the original tempo. I thinks it's more about the quality of the technique, rather than just the speed used.

dead

When I go to an AMP, I love it when my masseuse rubs me really slow, and gently massages my balls. After a few minutes, she starts speeding up a bit, but slows back down. By the time I cum, I think she is going pretty fast, but I am so lost in orgasm, I don't really know or care. I just know that she is watching my face, as I squirt my spunk all over my belly and her hands.

A bit of both

When I'm about to cum I like it slow enough to where I get to the edge and go over the edge from a very small movement.

Like it slow

Dry I like it fast. Lubed I like it slow.

I think either one, as long as the view is good and there's a bit of dirty talk. A nice view of a plump rump while stroking and teasing gets me going like nothing else.