Describes my tendencies perfectly!

Finding time along is more difficult now we are both at home. She does go out some mornings on a regular basis so that's edging time. Like everyone elase it always leads to a better and bigger load.

Its a real disappointment if my edging time is cut short by some other commitment or wife doesn't go out when expected, or worse comes home sooner than expected.

I had read that by edging a guy can reduce premature ejaculations. I wanted to last longer when having sex, so I started edging. It definitely improved my staying time - but at my age I have to be careful to not delay too long or I lose my erection.

I honestly didn't discover edging until I met my wife at age 20.

Long version, skip of you wish ...

Prior to that I was always so worried I'd cum too fast, that I kept my pants on, until I was ready to nut, with any partner. Understand I was a teenager, it was the very early '90s, AIDS scare, etc..., and didn't even view hardcore videos until 18, mags or pics from UseNet (pre-web Internet porn distribution option) at age 17. So I was always busting my nut in 1-2 minutes of any new media when jacking, so I didn't take any chances when dating.

I'd pet my partner, eat her out and either get her close, or off as many times as I could, once we became intimate. There were many first dates where mine didn't come out at all, or I didn't give her the chance to do much more than hold it, or let me straddle their racks.

I mean, I had the total focus on her pleasure from the start, even if she had grabbed my crotch first. So when I finally wanted her to just give me a handjob, or I wanted to fuck her tits, she just went with it. Others were happy they were only in for a hand job, which kept the "protection" not onky very simple, but damn easy in the first decade of AIDS, and the recent uptick in Herpes. We still didn't know how effective everything was, other than a condom with spermicide worked best.

So the only time it came up was if we had more than just a couple of datesz and were getting more serious. As you can imagine, some women thought it was weird when I told them I was a vaginal virgin, on purpose. And since I can be chatty and analytical, some were also adverse that I wasn't focused on my own pleasure, or penetrating them, and always seemed to be trying to figure out their favorite spots. This was despite getting them off, especially since I gave a lot of oral without hesitation. A few even admitting later they shouldn't have dumped me merely because I wouldn't spear them. I also dumped any date sleeping around, if I knew, just didn't want to chance it. So most of my dates never had more than 5 minutes of my cock out, at the end, after 30+ minutes of intimacy.

I finally lost my vaginal virginity when a brand new girlfriend sat on my cock, bareback. I mean she literally just hopped on it, her idea of "breaking in" that we were "steady." I thought she was just trying to pin me down from leaving for work, playfully, and I got a shitload more than I bargained for when she pulled her panties to the side and she was down me in a matter of a couple seconds, max.

We had not discussed I was a vaginal virgin to that point and I, barely 18, blew it all up inside her with 30 seconds. She honestly didn't believe me when I tried to get her off, actively fighting me as I tried to roll and pull/push her off, immediately telling her I was going to cum. And then I did, none to her joy, realizing I wasn't kiding ... I was really that innocent. I was in absolute sensory overload, when it came to penetration, as I had never had it ... ever.

It was my "worse nightmare" moment that came true.

That and a pretty shitty, unplanned way to lose my virginity, let alone it hurt, yes physically. We didn't last long after that either. She wanted me pounding her, and I felt uncomfortable donning a condom and taking her directly, no foreplay. Hey, to each his/her comfort, it just wasn't mine.

I only dated a few more women until I met my wife (to be), and fell in love with her within a week ... really hard, unlike anyone before. She was the most "aggressive" woman I had ever met, and would get off much faster than any of my other dates, and more than once in a hour long session. But she didn't pressure me to do anything. She was literally the first women I had ever felt comfortable with in bed, and it was like she could read my mind.

She never once pressured me to take her vaginally, not after getting engaged, not even after a year. We didn't have intercourse until we consummated on our honeymoon, and she even encouraged me to bust my nut in her hard and fast as she got atop.

And she edged me ... nothing any other, of the dozens of woman I was intimate with, bothered with. Maybe it's because I went 30+ minutes before I'd let another woman get my pants off, and they really weren't in the mood to sustain me after being worked over. It probably was also my own fears, and really just being innocent of what edging felt like.

But from the wet panty rides to the eventual oral edging, my girlfriend-fiance and then wife of 18-19 years old, with me only a couple years older, was really the first time I ever experienced edging at all -- whether alone or with someone. And it only got better when we married, and added edging during intercourse to the mix.

As I said ... probably pathetic to you guys of newer generations, especially with all the porn. And for you older guys, before AIDS, back when most anything could be cured with some shots or some pills, I literally kept it on my pants and outside of the pussy. All while most of my masturbation was quick. I literally knew nothing about edging until I was 20, and with my wife to be.

Hope a few of you enjoyed that or have similar stories, of your own or someone you knew. I know several of my past dates had jokes at my expense, and that is fine. I am who I am.

It literally took a woman to introduce me to edging.

Good point and I say true. I used to cum within 5-10 minutes during intercourse and would leave my gf (at the time) exasperated and unsatisfied. I trained myself to hold out by edging.

I am going on three hours now.

Edging on amphetamines is amazing. You can go for days only stopping to pee

Phew! I am bushed. Been edging for seven hours straight!

A guy edging.

Riding the edge

I've always edged since I started masturbating.you can masturbate to the edge and finish off within a few minutes.I started wanking over magazines.they were made for edging.you get 3 or 4 pages of a naked girl which you wank hard over.but then you get a rest,a topic to read or the letters pages which were spread throughout the magazine.then on to the next girl to start again.I wank my way through the magazine,get to the end ,and go back and finish myself off over usually the best tits.you all must know.

When I edge I like a lot more contact with my body. Lubing and teasing my dick, rubbing my taint. Playing with my pecs and nips. For me its all about arousing every part of my body and keeping it aroused for a long time.

probably in my early thirties - now ill be able stroke fro 7-8-10 hours if i can - love to do it on cam with a bud if i can!!!

love edging, absolutely addicted to getting my cock covered in coconut oil and going to town on myself for a few hours. by the end i've got oil everywhere, from my massive cock head to my balls and shoot a massive load all over

Love to edge.

In my late teens. But I didn't realize I was edging. I figured out it in my 20's that I was edging. Now I'm 50 I will edge for hours. Greatest feeling