Hopefully you guys can offer some insight.

I'm an early 30s male, recently wanting to embrace my bi-curiosity. Ideally I'd like to find a j/o buddy who would like to stroke, maybe while watching porn, then we warm up to giving each other a hand, then oral.

I've posted and responded to ads on craigslist and other sites, but it seems I only run into gay dudes pretending to be straight. A generalization, sure... but the 3 meetings that actually happened (don't get me started on fakes), they immediately go down on me once we get naked...

Now, don't get me wrong, like most guys I like a good BJ, but still...

So the question is... what's a good avenue to find fellow bi-curious guys wanting to take it slowly?

Thanks for your help!

Unfortunately with the online thing you get a lot of flakes or those who are horny but then rething it..the best way is to email with the person at least a couple days to make sure they are into the same thing you are. I actually may be trying to suck my first cock using a condom tonight and am wrestling whether or not to go through with it because i have a gf and know ill feel guilty but at the same time its not like she has a dick for me to try sucking

It's not the easiest thing to do, meet someone online, but it does happen. After those guys dive down on your cock, do they stick around or want to take off as soon as you get off? If they want to stick around then you might have someone who is willing to start a relationship. Otherwise keep looking. Those other guys really just want a cock to suck (and who could really blame them?) but don't want to know you.

Do you want to suck cock? I find it difficult to "build up" to that level but for me my first time with a guy went about ten minutes before I had his cock in my mouth. I love kissing and touching too and full body contact is very nice and I think a lot of guys would want that also.

Point is don't be turned off by someone who wants to suck you. That seems quite illogical. And good luck!

IMHO, you are on the best site on the internet to meet other men who want to jackoff with you. Most of the other sites are great if you're gay, but for the curious guy they just rarely work out.

I recommend searching the profiles on Jackinchat for people who are in Atlanta or in Georgia and within the age range you prefer. Once you identify a few, check the profiles and read their posts to get an idea of their interests and level of experience. Also look at the Last Logged In date to make sure they are on Jackinchat frequently and recently.

It also helps to fill out your own profile with information about your own interests. Adding an email or IM account name is also a great way to be found by guys in your area.