I've watched plenty of guys cum on Skype.
I think people just like getting turned on by doing 'something they shouldn't'. Like, it's a private thing but you're doing it with someone watching and it's naughty?
All I know is I enjoy watching ha ha!
EDIT - Seen 3 today!
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Sheffield area UK pan and anti negativity.
For me it is a way of showing how much I like a woman. Most of the time i have done this the woman has been dressed (CFNM). I have had a couple of sessions where we masturbate in front of each other at the same time.
Shit can't find no one to watch the just want to watch me not that I have a problem with being watched I peer to do it mutually at any rate for me its like feeling of thinking someone's watching you through your window
Compliments are the reason for me......
I think i have a hole in my jeans.....
Posted on 2017-05-30 02:12 AM. Last edited by Feminine_MaleLesbian on 2017-05-30 02:20 AM. (1 edits total)
I am sure there are many different reasons for many different people, but I think it mainly comes down to just a few reasons for the most part for most of us.
First of all, most of us were taught growing up that sex and masturbation are dirty and nasty and we should be ashamed if we do it and even though everybody was doing it, nobody was admitting to it because others (and ourselves) were making fun of people jacking off and calling people who did it dirty perverts and shaming them. Then you may run into that one friend, brother, sister, cousin etc. who had the guts to ask if you did it and maybe you had the guts to admit it to them and maybe not, and then they confessed to doing it, or maybe they were just bold enough to come right out with it and admit it to you first. Maybe you just talked about it or maybe you masturbated together when there was nothing else to do. Maybe you had a girlfriend or boyfriend and you weren't ready to go all the way yet, but you masturbated together.
You were told it was wrong, bad, dirty, nasty and perverted and there was a stigma attached to it, but you love it and maybe felt guilty and afraid of getting caught, but you also could not understand how something that comes so natural, feels so good and is hurting no one could be wrong and you know you couldn't stop if you wanted to, but you still kept it hidden. Your own dirty little secret, but you wish you didn't have to hide it and wish you had someone to discuss it with and maybe even share it with. You fantasize masturbating with someone or someone watching you and approving, being okay with it or even turned on by watching you.
When you find someone who is willing to watch you, at first, it's like naughty and kinky because you were taught that you're not supposed to do this and no one is supposed to know and you wonder what they are thinking while they watch you. Are they okay with you whipping it out and playing with yourself right in front of them or are they thinking you're a total pervert and getting grossed out by seeing you yanking your crank? Are they turned on by what they see or are they hoping it stops soon? I sure the excitement of being watched, especially for the first time, or any time with someone new, you have those questions running through your head and there are a lot of emotions and nervous excitement causing chemical reactions that make the excitement even greater and make you even hornier.
Then, there is the feelings of feeling free and relaxed when you know you are with someone who you can just be open and be yourself and be comfortable enough with someone and knowing they are comfortable enough with you that you can just be casual and do what turns you on and makes you feel good with someone who is not going to judge you and is okay with you getting yourself off in their presence, and even better if they are not just comfortable with it, but get into it and turned on by watching you. Even better still if they are comfortable masturbating in front of you so you can also watch them.
There was a time I would never admit I jacked off, but often wished I could find a girl who wouldn't think I was creepy for doing it and would let me do it in front of her.
Early on, one of my brothers and a couple of cousins and a coupe of friends asked me if I ever jacked off and we talked about it and would occasionally jack off together. It wasn't that I was into guys, but it was nice having someone to talk about it with and enjoy it with so I knew I wasn't the only one who jacked off, I wasn't dirty, creepy, weird or sick.
I did have some girlfriends who asked if I jacked off. I never really knew if I should admit it to them or not, but I usually did. Some girls who weren't ready to actually have sex were more than willing to masturbate together, masturbate each other or at least watch me jack off. I have always loved having women watch me jack off. (and love watching them masturbate too)
Most of my girlfriends have known I jack off and have watched me and I have women who I don't have sex with, but we enjoy masturbating together. I have been fortunate to have a had many girlfriends who loved watching me masturbate and masturbate with me so I get to watch them and also have several female friends who I don't have sex with but we masturbate together. I LOVE having women watch me masturbate!
I had two different girlfriends who hated that I jacked off, especially when I did it in front of them. But I decided that we were in a relationship and I was determined to be myself and not feel ashamed of doing something that is natural and healthy, not to mention, they lived with me in my house. I was not going to hide it. One of them eventually learned to love it. The other one never did, but I still jacked off in front of her (Wasn't like I wasn't fucking her because we fucked A LOT, but I loved jacking off too) Sometimes she would bitch while I was jacking off, but never said no when I wanted to shoot my cum in her mouth, on her face, all over her tits or wherever I wanted to blow my load. So sometimes it's not just the feeling of freedom to be able to jack off in front of someone who approves and likes to watch, but there is also something about jacking off in front of a girlfriend who thinks masturbation is gross, nasty and does not approve.
The same things can also apply to other things about sex that people may consider as "kinks".
I consider myself transgender. I have always identified as female, so I often dress as female. I do admit that for me, it can be a turn on to wear panties, lingerie or get completely dressed up in makeup, heels, hair done, etc. but that is not normally why I do it. It is more because that is just who I am and who I identify as. I can be turned on when I am dressed up if I feel passable, looking and feeling good about my appearance and now and then I may dress up for the purpose of getting turned on by it. Even women who were born with female parts will get turned on being all dressed up or will get dressed up to feel good and turn themselves on and will masturbate to themselves. All in all though, it is usually just me being me and not about getting turned on or getting myself off. However, being with a girl who knows, approves, supports and even gets turned on by me as my female self (even just talking freely about it and being open about it with them without being crossdressed can get me turned on) is a huge turn on when I can be myself and not have to hide who I really am.It is very empowering and also comforting to have a girl who I can be dressed in front of and comfortable with her seeing that and her being comfortable with it. That is a bigger turn on than any of the rest of it. The panties, bras, pantyhose, dresses, etc.
Phone sex is another example. If some girls knew I liked phone sex they may be freaked out by it and think I was creepy. Some of my girlfriends before I was married had phone sex with me, but if they knew I called sex lines they may have thought that was weird, so I used to never admit to calling sex lines until I met my ex-wife. She was the first one I had ever admitted to that I loved phone sex and called sex lines. Surprisingly, she was fine with it. I sometimes called while she was laying next to me and she would kiss on my neck and ears while I talked to the girls and jacked off and sometimes she would jack me off and many times she would listen in using the extension phone. sometimes she would come home and catch me having phone sex and stand there and watch or lay down with me. one time she sucked my cock while I had phone sex. At one point, when money got tight, she suggested I find out if some girls I knew personally would want to have phone sex with me so I wouldn't have to spend money on it. Didn't think that would ever happen, but before too long I did happen to become phone sex buddies with some women I knew. Since we divorced, I have been open with every girl I have dated about loving phone sex and in recent years sexting, cyber and webcam, since they have became more popular.
It's just nice being watched, or doing things that you enjoy that some may consider wrong or shameful and having someone (or a few people) you can be open and honest with about it all and comfortable enough to share without feeling guilty, no matter if it is masturbating, crossdressing, phone sex or any number of other things that someone may be into but worried what others may think if they were to be caught doing them.
Personally, I love being watched by women when I jack off.
I am not into guys, but I do host webcam and, of course, that's pretty much mostly (almost only) guys who pay to watch. I cam for the money, plus I do enjoy it. I love jacking off, obviously, so why not make some money while I do something I enjoy, right? It is rare to get a real female that pays to watch (but it does happen now and then). When I decided to try being a webcam host, I wasn't sure how I would feel about guys watching me jack off. I figured why not give it a try. It wasn't like they could touch me or I had to do anything with them physically in person, but the first time I had someone take me private, it was, of course, a guy, and once I was getting paid by the minute and knew there was someone watching me jack off and getting turned on by me enough to pay to watch me and that they were masturbating to me. I was incredibly turned on, even if it was a guy. Other than when I was young, I have never masturbated for a guy outside of paid webcam. I don't think I would be into it as much without the money coming in while I was doing it. I think I am like a lesbian stripper. I am not into guys, but I do get turned on by having that bit of power over them knowing I can get make them hot and horny enough that they get turned on by me an want to pay me their money to get me naked, pull my cock out of my panties so they can jack off to watching me jack off. It is a huge turn on getting paid to jack off by men or women. I also love getting extra huge tips to put different toys in my ass. I have one huge dildo that costs a bit extra to put in my ass. It's huge!
I have also thought about getting on doing live peep shows at one of our local adult toy stores. Wondering how I would like being watched in person by a guy jerking himself off just on the other side of the glass. I think I might really like that.
First of all, most of us were taught growing up that sex and masturbation are dirty and nasty and we should be ashamed if we do it and even though everybody was doing it, nobody was admitting to it because others (and ourselves) were making fun of people jacking off and calling people who did it dirty perverts and shaming them. Then you may run into that one friend, brother, sister, cousin etc. who had the guts to ask if you did it and maybe you had the guts to admit it to them and maybe not, and then they confessed to doing it, or maybe they were just bold enough to come right out with it and admit it to you first. Maybe you just talked about it or maybe you masturbated together when there was nothing else to do. Maybe you had a girlfriend or boyfriend and you weren't ready to go all the way yet, but you masturbated together.
You were told it was wrong, bad, dirty, nasty and perverted and there was a stigma attached to it, but you love it and maybe felt guilty and afraid of getting caught, but you also could not understand how something that comes so natural, feels so good and is hurting no one could be wrong and you know you couldn't stop if you wanted to, but you still kept it hidden. Your own dirty little secret, but you wish you didn't have to hide it and wish you had someone to discuss it with and maybe even share it with. You fantasize masturbating with someone or someone watching you and approving, being okay with it or even turned on by watching you.
When you find someone who is willing to watch you, at first, it's like naughty and kinky because you were taught that you're not supposed to do this and no one is supposed to know and you wonder what they are thinking while they watch you. Are they okay with you whipping it out and playing with yourself right in front of them or are they thinking you're a total pervert and getting grossed out by seeing you yanking your crank? Are they turned on by what they see or are they hoping it stops soon? I sure the excitement of being watched, especially for the first time, or any time with someone new, you have those questions running through your head and there are a lot of emotions and nervous excitement causing chemical reactions that make the excitement even greater and make you even hornier.
Then, there is the feelings of feeling free and relaxed when you know you are with someone who you can just be open and be yourself and be comfortable enough with someone and knowing they are comfortable enough with you that you can just be casual and do what turns you on and makes you feel good with someone who is not going to judge you and is okay with you getting yourself off in their presence, and even better if they are not just comfortable with it, but get into it and turned on by watching you. Even better still if they are comfortable masturbating in front of you so you can also watch them.
There was a time I would never admit I jacked off, but often wished I could find a girl who wouldn't think I was creepy for doing it and would let me do it in front of her.
Early on, one of my brothers and a couple of cousins and a coupe of friends asked me if I ever jacked off and we talked about it and would occasionally jack off together. It wasn't that I was into guys, but it was nice having someone to talk about it with and enjoy it with so I knew I wasn't the only one who jacked off, I wasn't dirty, creepy, weird or sick.
I did have some girlfriends who asked if I jacked off. I never really knew if I should admit it to them or not, but I usually did. Some girls who weren't ready to actually have sex were more than willing to masturbate together, masturbate each other or at least watch me jack off. I have always loved having women watch me jack off. (and love watching them masturbate too)
Most of my girlfriends have known I jack off and have watched me and I have women who I don't have sex with, but we enjoy masturbating together. I have been fortunate to have a had many girlfriends who loved watching me masturbate and masturbate with me so I get to watch them and also have several female friends who I don't have sex with but we masturbate together. I LOVE having women watch me masturbate!
I had two different girlfriends who hated that I jacked off, especially when I did it in front of them. But I decided that we were in a relationship and I was determined to be myself and not feel ashamed of doing something that is natural and healthy, not to mention, they lived with me in my house. I was not going to hide it. One of them eventually learned to love it. The other one never did, but I still jacked off in front of her (Wasn't like I wasn't fucking her because we fucked A LOT, but I loved jacking off too) Sometimes she would bitch while I was jacking off, but never said no when I wanted to shoot my cum in her mouth, on her face, all over her tits or wherever I wanted to blow my load. So sometimes it's not just the feeling of freedom to be able to jack off in front of someone who approves and likes to watch, but there is also something about jacking off in front of a girlfriend who thinks masturbation is gross, nasty and does not approve.
The same things can also apply to other things about sex that people may consider as "kinks".
I consider myself transgender. I have always identified as female, so I often dress as female. I do admit that for me, it can be a turn on to wear panties, lingerie or get completely dressed up in makeup, heels, hair done, etc. but that is not normally why I do it. It is more because that is just who I am and who I identify as. I can be turned on when I am dressed up if I feel passable, looking and feeling good about my appearance and now and then I may dress up for the purpose of getting turned on by it. Even women who were born with female parts will get turned on being all dressed up or will get dressed up to feel good and turn themselves on and will masturbate to themselves. All in all though, it is usually just me being me and not about getting turned on or getting myself off. However, being with a girl who knows, approves, supports and even gets turned on by me as my female self (even just talking freely about it and being open about it with them without being crossdressed can get me turned on) is a huge turn on when I can be myself and not have to hide who I really am.It is very empowering and also comforting to have a girl who I can be dressed in front of and comfortable with her seeing that and her being comfortable with it. That is a bigger turn on than any of the rest of it. The panties, bras, pantyhose, dresses, etc.
Phone sex is another example. If some girls knew I liked phone sex they may be freaked out by it and think I was creepy. Some of my girlfriends before I was married had phone sex with me, but if they knew I called sex lines they may have thought that was weird, so I used to never admit to calling sex lines until I met my ex-wife. She was the first one I had ever admitted to that I loved phone sex and called sex lines. Surprisingly, she was fine with it. I sometimes called while she was laying next to me and she would kiss on my neck and ears while I talked to the girls and jacked off and sometimes she would jack me off and many times she would listen in using the extension phone. sometimes she would come home and catch me having phone sex and stand there and watch or lay down with me. one time she sucked my cock while I had phone sex. At one point, when money got tight, she suggested I find out if some girls I knew personally would want to have phone sex with me so I wouldn't have to spend money on it. Didn't think that would ever happen, but before too long I did happen to become phone sex buddies with some women I knew. Since we divorced, I have been open with every girl I have dated about loving phone sex and in recent years sexting, cyber and webcam, since they have became more popular.
It's just nice being watched, or doing things that you enjoy that some may consider wrong or shameful and having someone (or a few people) you can be open and honest with about it all and comfortable enough to share without feeling guilty, no matter if it is masturbating, crossdressing, phone sex or any number of other things that someone may be into but worried what others may think if they were to be caught doing them.
Personally, I love being watched by women when I jack off.
I am not into guys, but I do host webcam and, of course, that's pretty much mostly (almost only) guys who pay to watch. I cam for the money, plus I do enjoy it. I love jacking off, obviously, so why not make some money while I do something I enjoy, right? It is rare to get a real female that pays to watch (but it does happen now and then). When I decided to try being a webcam host, I wasn't sure how I would feel about guys watching me jack off. I figured why not give it a try. It wasn't like they could touch me or I had to do anything with them physically in person, but the first time I had someone take me private, it was, of course, a guy, and once I was getting paid by the minute and knew there was someone watching me jack off and getting turned on by me enough to pay to watch me and that they were masturbating to me. I was incredibly turned on, even if it was a guy. Other than when I was young, I have never masturbated for a guy outside of paid webcam. I don't think I would be into it as much without the money coming in while I was doing it. I think I am like a lesbian stripper. I am not into guys, but I do get turned on by having that bit of power over them knowing I can get make them hot and horny enough that they get turned on by me an want to pay me their money to get me naked, pull my cock out of my panties so they can jack off to watching me jack off. It is a huge turn on getting paid to jack off by men or women. I also love getting extra huge tips to put different toys in my ass. I have one huge dildo that costs a bit extra to put in my ass. It's huge!
I have also thought about getting on doing live peep shows at one of our local adult toy stores. Wondering how I would like being watched in person by a guy jerking himself off just on the other side of the glass. I think I might really like that.
Love stroking with the women in person, on the phone or on webcam.
luv watching and being watched
I like ve the taboo and the humiliation of85
Humiliate me
While I enjoy beingg watched, the very best is when I am in a porn theater, near the end of a night of open edging, fucking and getting sucked and holding myself back. At the end I often stand in front of the front row strip naked and turn to face the audience as I stroke my hard cock slowly increasing in speed. The part I love is as I begin to let myself go, give myself over to the pleasure and stroke with abandon, watching the audience stroking their dicks, women spread their legs in front of me at times or massage their tits for me, some people come up and join me as I grab my cock and jack with both hands watching folks cum watching me and not the big screen porn. Nothing makes me cum harder than that seeing others staring at me working furiously then moaning and cumming still staring while I hump the air jacking and shooting. The excitement of exciting others to orgasm does it for me. them seeing me shoot cum excited from watching them really makes everyone smile. gonna do it again tonight. been too long.
Working it hard
Good question. I've gone into adult chat rooms, put myself on cam in the public area and anyone can watch. It's definitely a turn on.
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