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uninspiredartist Novice Jackinchatter

79 posts since 2012-07-04
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How long can you go without wanking? I feel like I want to build up a nice big load sometimes but that takes days and I can't seem to wait that long ever!
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I take it as a fun challenge, to go a few days
and perhaps weeks without wanking.

It takes will-power, and one's mind has to be
occupied or distracted by non-sexual things
in order to maintain Abstinence from any
kind of sexual stimulation whether it's visual,
mental, verbal, aural, or physical.
And I don't need any Chastity device to help
me abstain; I simply abstain un-armed and hands-free.
My work schedule is enough block for me to feel
too tired or exhausted to wank for a few hours
every night.

I practice Abstinence as an exercise and a tool
to enhance my edging sessions and orgasm threshold
when the time comes for me to wank again.
And I don't just rip-chord right back into wanking;
I take my time slowly edging myself for hours and
several days during my free time until I feel
that I really wanna bust my load.
That's just a few more added days going without
wanking and cuming.

Perhaps this method that I practice contradicts
the main theme of this web group.
But this is what I do to get my swerve on. wink
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bater1234 Amateur Jackinchatter

453 posts since 2015-07-09
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Been 6 days so far this time. I am off and home alone tomorrow and SSSOOOOOOO looking forward to a good edge session and magnificent orgasm! Gonna be good finding someone to swap pics of sexy women in stockings, heels and lingerie. My balls are so full right now and in need of a release!
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471 posts since 2014-09-22
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I can go several hours if forced to do so.
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hungboy007 Skilled Jackinchatter

907 posts since 2015-06-30
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normally I have to cum at least once a day........; but due to extremely busy days, I ve not wanked since monday. NOT a good thing.; Finally I have a little bit of time on my own and I ll pump out a couple of big loads.... to "ease the pain"
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donhagen Amateur Jackinchatter

229 posts since 2012-07-04
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only a couple days now. i found that the frustration of not cumming isn't worth denying myself orgasms for one big load.
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Wanker78 Enlightened Jackinchatter

3837 posts since 2015-07-08
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Since I was 13 I've never gone more than 72 hours without a cum. Even after that long I will usually have two or three wanks in quick succession to catch up.

If I don't wank for 36 hours I get irritable and sometimes it's noticeable. I have to pretend it's due to lack of sleep.plain
Colossal Pervert- Think I'll treat myself to my third wank today
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When the GF isn't available or a buddy isn't free to come over and suck me.. I usually jerk off once a day, maybe twice lol. Usually don't have to jerkoff too often.
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cumtease Skilled Jackinchatter

686 posts since 2016-09-25
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Two days would be the longest for me and I really don't want to go that long.
Celebrating masturbating
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583 posts since 2007-06-21
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Mazinga said:
,,, It takes will-power, and one's mind has to be
occupied or distracted by non-sexual things
in order to maintain Abstinence from any
kind of sexual stimulation whether it's visual,
mental, verbal, aural, or physical.
I simply abstain un-armed and hands-free.
My work schedule is enough block for me to feel
too tired or exhausted to wank for a few hours
every night.


I abstained for seven weeks, no porn and no masturbation -- I'd read that's how long it takes to break up a porn/masturbation addiction. Had a very busy work and family schedule that made it possible, never would have made it on my own. Sleeping in same room as others, traveling, and working as a unit made me focus on others.
There were times of intense longing in the first and third week, then I'd steer myself by thinking "okay, what's the second best thing I could do now?" and I'd go do it.

End result, yes it put the porn/masturbation addiction aside for the period of abstinence and after I ended it, I have it in better perspective.
It wouldn't be healthy to quit forever, but I think the experts know what they are talking about.
When I ended, even the sight of bare breasts on Domai had me hard quickly.
You get jaded when you do it day in and day out, and can end up needing things you don't really approve of just to keep it going.

Sorry if this goes against the mood, but it's true.
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10 hours?
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2 - 3 days at the most. stroke
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Jerkin42 Amateur Jackinchatter

458 posts since 2014-01-29
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2 days
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It's not against the mood at all.
And I agree about going without porn for a while
to break that addiction (not that I would wanna
break my porn addiction, lol!)...

...I watch so much porn that I get bored with it
after a while of watching the same typical routines
over and over again by so many different people.
I sometimes feel the same when I wank every night,
bored with my usual wanking routines;
and so I go into abstinence for a while to clear
my mind and be open to new ideas as they happen.

Whenever I see or think of something to spice up
my edging sessions I hold off on that idea
and challenge myself to go yet another day
without wanking, and each day I push my limit
until I finally decide to wank and take my
sweet time edging with my new idea.

I live with a gay roommate of my ideal guy-type,
and we play together once in a great while.
But even that doesn't really entice me to
chase him for a romp in my room... I save my best
situations and sensuality for my solo edging
sessions where I get to lose myself into fantasy
while I edge, that way I'm not distracted by
someone if that guy is not into some of the
things I like to do.

When I go back to watching porn, it's a fresh
perspective seeing what other folks are doing
to get their rocks off.

(I apologize if I'm straying from the main topic here)

marriedboner said:
I abstained for seven weeks, no porn and no masturbation -- I'd read that's how long it takes to break up a porn/masturbation addiction. Had a very busy work and family schedule that made it possible, never would have made it on my own. Sleeping in same room as others, traveling, and working as a unit made me focus on others.
There were times of intense longing in the first and third week, then I'd steer myself by thinking "okay, what's the second best thing I could do now?" and I'd go do it.

End result, yes it put the porn/masturbation addiction aside for the period of abstinence and after I ended it, I have it in better perspective.
It wouldn't be healthy to quit forever, but I think the experts know what they are talking about.
When I ended, even the sight of bare breasts on Domai had me hard quickly.
You get jaded when you do it day in and day out, and can end up needing things you don't really approve of just to keep it going.

Sorry if this goes against the mood, but it's true.
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Between 3 days and 2 weeks
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