Do looks matter when u cam? I like to see what people look like before I agree to cam because I don't want to be disappointed. Maybe that is shallow of me...but...why should I have to cam with someone unattractive?

Thoughts?

I agree... no offence to people. but its like dating a girl... or guy. looks do matter for some. just like some people like older people and some don't. personal preference i guess. but yeah, i agree.

yeah, seeing face is important for me. i like to cam with attractive people, and plus it's a good way to check out if they're legit (like actually the age they said, or if they're 300 lbs when they said they were 150).

Its not so much about seeing face for me...just the bod. Guts are the worst. I think more people need to take better care of themselves including me.

Yeah, you don't want to agree to cam with someone and then be disappointed because he/she is not to your liking.

I am part of this shallowness also!

Haha....I have to admit that I harbour the same shallowness. It's a variety of factors for me...age, body and face.

I'm upfront about who/what I am so I'd like for others to be as well.

Hey, to each his own you know? If looking at a girl who isn't attractive to you isn't going to get you off, then who's to say you're wrong? You don't owe anyone anything so if a chick's looks don't work for you, move on and find another.

If I am attracted to a gender, I want people of that gender that I chat/masturbate with to be attractive to me, but if I am not attracted to that gender, but am just looking to get off, I prefer people who look like me - unattractive with big overhanging bellies because I can feel more comfortable with them.

Since I don't find men physically attractive, I want old, out-of-shape, chubby guys, but I prefer young, shapely, well-proportioned females. Is that weird?