I had a guy who I chatted to on Skype and we hit it off really well. We liked exactly the same role plays and it was cool. We'd have long chats which we'd both get off on.

So he has not been in touch since new year and I figure ok. He's probaly kicked the habit so good for him. Then I find out he's still logging on here. So still using porn.

Do I have any right to feel affronted/upset about this? Onepart of me says it happens mocve on. But another part of me says we had 'something' going on and a little goodbye is not too much to ask.

I'd like your guy's perceptions on it. You're pretty much the only people I can ask. Thanks.

I wouldn't feel too bad about it. You know that feeling when you're really turned on and you're so in to something, you cum and then it suddenly has no appeal to you? He may have had the same sort of thing with your "arrangement". The fantasies he had with you had run their course and he just moved on. It's part of human nature and you shouldn't get yourself upset over it.

I know this quote is usually for relationships but it suits your situation quite well, "There's plenty more fish in the sea"

Was it with me ? if so no i didnt get sick of it.. Ive chatted on skype role lay and stopped talking to people cuz wasnt sure if they were in to it So just didnt know if it was still fun for the other person . if it was someeone else my bad sorry to hear that .

I expect that my reply will draw a lot of flack, but the fact is, in my opinion, that the majority of people online simply don't have much in the way of manners or even just basic common courtesy. Yes I believe you have the right to expect a simple "Sorry mate, no longer into it, but good luck to you" You have the right to expect it, but don't hold your breath until you receive it!

No it wasn't you and for what it is worth I am not trying to entice him back. It's finished and that is it. It's been playing on my mind so I thought I'd talk about it here and get your perspective.

I think that most people don't put any premium on their online relationships and therefore don't treat people with respect. Saddens me to when it happens.

Yes you deserved a goodbye or a fuck off, but this cyber space and people can just turn off like a light switch. Don't sweat it man, you will find plenty more good chat buds.

Not clear to me, but have you contacted him?

But as others have said, sometimes these things have just run their course or life changes have had an effect.

Situations change. Life give you different priorities. I wouldn't sweat it too much. Just enjoy that you had some good chats.

If he is still registered on here and has logged on recently and you have asked a direct question then I think you have to accept that he is not interested or able at the moment.

Things may change and id he does make contact, it will be up to you whether you pick it up. There are many real life reasons that get in the way of our wanking life (for want of a better phrase)

I would love a long term wank/ chat buddy.

Into the same things and people.

Ideal (but impossible) would be to find one that could be trusted 100%. Share personal pics and pics of people you know that you wank over knowing they would never be shared.

It would be superb.

had the same thing happen - was a cool guy that I would chat with (not just an online come and go LOL) - not looking for romance< but is nice to be at least somewhat of a friend (think that makes the play even better) - all of a sudden he's gone, but know still online and camming, etc - guess it just happens

I absolutely accept it. It's just that I wanted to talk itthrough and obviously it's not something you can talk with many people about so I brought it here. Talking has helped.

I've had similar things happen to me. Its usually hard to find someone with same taste and same jacking schedule to be able to have a good chat. When you find someone and you click its so much fun. Nothing like having a good wanking buddy. Its always odd when they just stop responding since you know how difficult to find a good fit. As hard as it is to loose a jacking buddy I usually seem to pick one up to take their place in time.

It's not all that easy to find and retain a great online masturbation buddy. I look for guys near my age and str8 or bi who are really into masturbation and sharing it with another guy. But as a married man, it's not often that I get the time to do what I really like - spend hours naked and stroking my cock watching and being watched. Often I get a narrow window of time and my penis wants to cum so sometimes I leave a buddy hanging. The same thing happens to me of course. Sure wish I could find another real life j/o buddy, but until then (and even after) I'll be cruising Skype and Rabb.it whenever I get the chance to masturbate.