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If in a pre-agreed open relationship - fine. If you're in a supposedly monogamous relationship and you're doing it behind your partner's back - not nice. Sorry, but you did ask.

i think you should continue, I've had a few as well sometimes 1-4/yr.Just plain a good time fucking or more intense. My partners were just as horny as I was, they wanted something new, excitementat home was same old same old. I provided the change to their boring routine. I am always willing to oblige

wish like hell my wife would

it is wrong. but when your cock slides in that new pussy, it feels great and you want more

You've contradicted yourself. First you say 'sex is just sex' then in the same breath you say 'it's physical and there are emotions involved.'

For me, trust and respect are very important and I believe cheating on a person who cares for you is ultimately disrespectful to both yourself and to the other person.

That's just my own view and everyone is human and no one is perfect and just be safe.

I've never been married so maybe I don't get it but I've always wondered why would you back yourself into a corner and get married in the first place? Why not just stay single and fuck guilt free (unless of course the guilt is your fetish.)

It would depend on the situation. If you both love each other and have an active sex life then you are wrong.

If you are in a sexless marriage then what are the underlying issues? If she has pulled back and no longer shows an interest in yourself along with sex then temptation will get the better of you.

are you able to get your wife slightly interested in moving towards ethical non monogamy?

Have you read 'ethical slut' and 'more than two'. And theres many people doing non monogamy with consent, if you head over to polyamory.com


It would be better, of course, to have consent from your wife ( and by the way, if shes allowed to do it, too? would you be ok with that?).

Having said that, our f*cked up culture ( and laws) are obsessed with controlling our genitals, and I dont agree with them.
Your genitals belong to YOU
your lovers genitals belong to HER
Your wifes genitals belong to HER
if 2 adults want to have fun enjoying each others genitals, that its up to those 2 people. to me is has f all to do with your church, your govt, or maybe even your spouse.

:-) :-)

I have no problem with masturbating to celebs or porn, but i would never cheat on my gf and expect that respect and loyalty in both ways.cheating is end of relationship to me.

My wife and I have a simple rule. Look but don't touch. We both enjoy the human body and can get turned on by other people. We both masturbate. But we don't have sex with other people period. If that is what we wanted, we wouldn't be married. It doesn't meant we aren't tempted or don't fantasize about it...it just means we honour our commitment to each other.

I have only had affairs or cheating when I was in the military and deployed away from my wife for months or for a year. I can say that I never cheated while in the same country as my wife, not that that makes anything better.

Me and the wife have a long time girl friend that we have fun with. We just don't hide anything because it creates tension and a shitty marriage.

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