I came to the conclusion after years of coming to sites like JC and other places, jerking off with probably hundreds of guys over phone, camera, etc that I am probably 70/30 in terms of sexual orientation -- heavily leaning to women but with a definite interest in men on a certain level. It's not romantic at all and I don't look at guys on the street, but I love watching guys fuck and I love dick. I have no problem talking to guys on the phone and getting very dirty.

Now that's just my conclusion -- every guy has to decide that for himself. Being attracted to someone doesn't mean you're going to fuck them, just like NOT being attracted to someone means you CAN'T fuck them. If a straight guy gets really good head from another guy, it's still going to feel good. So I think the straight/gay/bi label is maybe just a bit overthought, at least it was in my case.

I've seen guys in the chat claim that you can't possibly jerk off with another guy and still be straight. I disagree 100% and think that each person has to decide for themselves. In the mean time, there's no reason not to have some fun without worrying about it too much.

I've always seen str8, bi and gay as an easy way to identify people even though it does compartmentalize or pigeon hole people when you think about it. Saw that the guys who have less of a problem with labels are those who've done stuff and more comfortable with their sexuality in general. Talked to a lot of people over the years and heard a bunch of stories, predominantly from people under 30 or college age who've done stuff to a more or lesser degree, but I never saw it when I was their age so probably not as prevalent as today.

Sure, why not. I consider myself a straight guy and have no interest in dating another guy. But, that story definitely got my attention. I think it might be fun to explore a little.

[quote=Str8Male74]I've always seen str8, bi and gay as an easy way to identify people even though it does compartmentalize or pigeon hole people when you think about it. Saw that the guys who have less of a problem with labels are those who've done stuff and more comfortable with their sexuality in general. Talked to a lot of people over the years and heard a bunch of stories, predominantly from people under 30 or college age who've done stuff to a more or lesser degree, but I never saw it when I was their age so probably not as prevalent as today.[/quote ] I think it's always been around to some degree just more accepted publicly than it used to be. I don't think it's quite as taboo and I'm glad , most especially for younger guys who're considering it.

I am 'straight', married, addict for pussy. HOwever, past few years I have got mre interested in cocks and balls. Love to watch guys masturbate and cum on videos. Have now also enjoyed fantasising about giving guys handjobs and blowjobs. I am sure I'd love now to have a young stud take care of me with his hand and mouth. Would love to mutually wank on web.

34m nj str8 but curious but love to chat about the curiosity.. send me a pvt

I agree with you. Its hot to watch a guy stroke but I have no desire to be physical with another guy. I also agree with others that its a very large spectrum between straight and gay. As long as both parties are into it, do what feels right.

It's semantics, guys. We all love sex. We all enjoy our orgasms. Everyone enjoys pleasures of the senses; all the senses. Males are typically visually aroused. Many have oral tendencies. If we're honest every one of us is bi-sexual to some degree, and all over the scale/spectrum. And here's another secret, women are too. They are simply aroused differently. Let's not bother labeling ourselves gay, or bi, or straight. Just enjoy what you like and be cool with it!

Absolutely!

I find watching a shemale solo much more at rousing than watching a guy stroke. Love watching women masturbate as well.
Most of my extracurricular activity is with females at massage parlors though have seen a half dozen she male escorts, three male masseurs and one JO bud from this site. What does that make me?
How about "Happy"?

Im married, totally attracted to women and in love with women. Love eating pussy and playing with tits... but i find hardons and cock play super erotic. Ive sucked and stroked guys to orgasm, but dont like anal even with women. Dont kiss guys, fuzzy faces dont appeal to me, but i love having stroke buds and playmates. Wish i had a regular one like i once did before he moved.

I am a firm believer in live and let live. If a guy wants to get married to another guy they shouldn't be denied the same financial, medical and legal rights like everyone else just because of whom they choose to love and spend their lives with. On the other hand I find it funny, when I've talked to a group of people it's either they are curious and somehow able to separate the act from the feelings attached to it, but doesn't the act go with the feelings? Can't have one without the other. Those who are straight but open minded, have had sexual relationships with other guys, but still see themselves as straight and rationalize in my opinion to make it OK in their minds, when it's who are you kidding. You aren't straight, you are bisexual at the least. One guy I talked to was like that. Straight, but did have "bromances" with other guys where he played a bit but still made it to look like it was a normal thing in his mind and could still retain his straightness. I know sexual fluidity has become a new concept. I've seen things as more black and white but that just comes from my limited life experience.

Very curious and would love to try something. Just not sure if I would have the guts to do it.

If you are looking for a title it's curious. Personally I believe no one is straight. We all are curious, just some are afraid to admit it. Conditioned by society and the older you are the deeper you are conditioned. Call me curious, and I've overcome my conditioning and I'm embracing my new title at the ripe age of 62.

Congratulations.I think as men get older our sex drive increases.
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