I've got a regular guy that I have been jacking off with for a few years now. We only meet a couple times a year, but it's relaxed. We watch porn, use our wives dirty panties, look at our wives pictures and stroke off together. We also jack each other off with the panties.

Let me know when you're in St. Louis next. Some JO'ing in your hotel might be fun!

I've had success posting my own ad on Craigslist. You get a lot of bs one email responses and then dead air, but if you're persistent you'll get something. Be honest about what you look like and what you're looking for, or it's probably not going to work out. Meet somewhere in public first and talk on the phone if you can. It's easier if you can host. I cannot, but I get together with my buddy a few times a year and it's always awesome!

I too am in the same boat. It would be cool to have a buddy to watch some porn with and get a real good stroke going. I'm still looking for one here in the Tampa area.