i think men like cock because it is the ultimate expression of the masculine aesthetic. It is our most basic need as men to shoot our sperm.

And to have it swallowed, giving our sperm to another guy

For me, thinking back to the start of puberty, it seems it all began with my own cock. I remember examining it closely and starting to masturbate long before i was interested in anyone else sexually. I remember enjoying watching my cock get hard, feeling it in my hand, watching it spurt and, obviously feeling the orgasm. I was an early developer and I remember as my peers started to develop I would start to wonder how big they got hard, whether theirs would feel any different from mine, how much and how often they squirted etc. As a result I have engaged in mutual, both doing ourselves in view of the other and, with a couple of friends, doing each other.

That curiosity never expanded into wanting to do other sexual things with a guy or have a sexual relationship with one but equally never went away even when I discovered girls.

If you want to classify that then maybe it makes me a 1 on the Kinsey scale or maybe a 2 but certainly not as far as 3.

At the end of the day, though, labels have limited value. They can be useful in conversation and some people probably find them useful to see where they fit in, but once you are settled in a lifestyle that makes you happy what you call that lifestyle doesn't really matter.

There is nothing wrong with liking cock. It's just fun jacking another guys cock or sucking him off. I love another guys hand or mouth on mine.

Great explanation Comus, there are so many of your things from your youth that fit my right to a tee. I guess my generation was a result of the baby boom generation. Kids were so much different back then, parents were so much different than they are today. Just great to read your post here and I just felt lead to say thanks!

I remember when I was a kid with a collection of straight porn - I read a Hustler (early 80s?) that had an article about man on man sex. The article said that fucking women was great and couldn't be beat, but for raw, sweaty, dirty sex - you had to experience it with another man.

I strated in 8th grade (blowing a friend) but quickly started to get good looking girls. I didn't lick another penis until high school, then again in college. All the while, I had some awesome girlfriends with absolutely filthy minds.

Truth is, I still have occasional sex with guys, only because its so damn nasty!

Heres a vid that kind of explains why guys like cocks, and how ladies and gents get turned on by different things.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?app=desktop&persist_app=1&v=qMoEs7eQeZE