Bogey58, you're bisexual. What's the problem?

Then what is it?

If you get sexually turned on by another man then you're either gay or you're bisexual. It's got nothing to do with "falling in love" or kissing, holding hands or wearing pink knickers - if you're turned on thinking about or getting involved in sexual activity with another man (you could be watching him through a telescope) you can't leap around yelling you're 100% straight.

If you write the word straight on the top of a piece of paper and the word gay at the bottom and connect the two words with a straight line your male sexuality will fall somewhere on that line. Some will be closer to straight and others will be closer to gay.

But who really cares. Just enjoy your sexuality and that thing that lies between your legs: it is a great pleasure device.

I have to admit, i am totally str8, but i've been trying to find a str8 jack buddy to give it a try...i get so horny when i stroke on porn, i'm sure it would be a turnon having someone here as horny as i am doin the same thing.

I'm with you, man!

I am married but nothing can replace just jacking off with another guy. I have a married friend and he and I meet up once a month. We have beat our cocks off together. Can't beat it enough.

Always to see what another dude's dick looks like.

Damn dude, you are fooling yourself if you really think that cock sucking is not gay.

Feel free to invite me next time.

Does having a balloon fetish make you made of rubber?
Does having a fetish for feet make you a shoe salesman?
Does having a fetish for maid outfits make you a maid?
Does having a fetish for cross-dressing make you a woman?

Unless you are prepared to hook this guy up to a plesmograph and study his physical responses, you have no right to state that he is not straight. You are not him, and you cannot possibly know the reasons or thinking behind his decisions and desires.

In fact, I've just decided you are a woman trapped in a mans body.
Prove me wrong.
What, you can't? You mean I have to just accept what you say?

Do you see my point?

People need to stop judging others on their sexual desires and labeling them on their behalf. Think beyond the man-made labels and think for yourself. You don't need a dictionary to decide what you like sexually.

its Hot to who cares

just watched some porn and jacked with a str8 married guy 32...it was hot.

So, thickstick, how did this situation come about? Was this a bud of yours? Any plans to hook up with him again? Where did you do it and what did you do? Horny minds want the HARD facts!

Psychologists need to pigeonhole and label people in order to understand trends--salubrious and unhealthy--in order to treat the latter. They need to come up with a label for people like me: a guy who loves his own cock and balls, and by extension--as it were--finds it natural and compelling to love another, similar set. I have ZERO interest in any other part of a guy's body--except maybe a tight little bum--but I can go crazy playing with another cock and balls. When we have an orgasm, whatever we are seeing, feeling, smelling and tasting at that moment becomes hardwired as a sexual stimulus for the next time. So when I am masturbating alone alone, I am seeing, feeling, smelling and tasting (I love to shoot into my mouth) my cock, balls and sperm--and sometimes bum. That is why I am interested in another set on another guy: My nervous system recognizes this stimulus as causing sexual arousal and orgasm. And the part that is even better about doing another guy's equipment rather than mine is that I can get really up close and personal with the parts.

So, psychologists, what category am I in? Am I bisexual? But I have no interest in even kissing a guy. Am I bi-curious? But I am beyond curiosity as I have had sex--even a BJ is sex, right President Bill?-- with more than a dozen guys, and I know I like their cocks + balls. Am I straight? Doesn't look like it, does it? I sometimes refer to myself as a below-the belt bi. Perhaps there is a more elegant--and cinical--term for guys like us.

I'm with you creamaster. I have no desire to be in a relationship with a man, but I do like cock. As far as labels, they are incredibly pointless. I had a psychology professor explain it this way: Imagine sexuality is a continuum from 1-10 with 1 being absolutely 100% heterosexual and 10 being absolutely 100% homosexual. There are very few, if any 1s and 10s. Most people fall between 2 and 9. I personaly consider myself to be a 3 or 4 depending on what kind of mood I'm in. I like cock. I would jerk off and have oral sex with a guy and possibly cock to cock, but never anal or anything else. I'd NEVER kiss a guy or care to be held or embraced by one. As far as romance goes it's 100% women for me. But I had a jerk off buddy in college and that was lots of fun. I'd have another one, if I found the right guy. I like looking at pictures and videos of naked guys, especially cumshots. Anyway, I like the term "below the belt bi" Creamaster, but I can also appreciate a nice set of abs and pecs on a guy. I like looking at pics of well endowed men especially if they are uncut. As far as the terms "gay, straight, and bi" go, I say a person is whatever he/she identifies as. If someone says he/she is straight, then he/she is straight. Same goes with gay or bi. No one else has any right to say otherwise. We are so paranoid that someone may be "in the closet," but why? And what if someone is? Why do we feel they should have to "come out"? What if a person is happy that way? Why is anyone's sexuality or sexual practices anyone else's concern? How did sex become associated with morality any way? I mean as long as all parties are concenting adults and no one gets hurt, do we as individuals or as a society really need to be concerned about it? Yet gay sex was illegal in many parts of the United States until 2005! The fact of the matter is we as humman beings are sexual creatures, probably some of the most sexual creatures on the planet, yet we repress our sexual nature like no other creature on the planet. When the lights are out, and you are alone, you probably really don't care what gender your partner is. You just want to feel good!