Exactly what FLscribe said. Also, don't expect that you will do anything on any given night at a club. Go there to meet and talk with other people in that lifestyle, but don't expect there will be play. If you go often enough it will happen and maybe even in the first night, but you'll find that it's not what you think. The odds of a guy just coming up and getting in your gf's face is not high. People tend to be respectful there. Even with others, communication is key.

i think you have seriously hit one of life's greatest jackpots.

So since we are both professionals and work crazy hours with rotating shifts it isn't always possible to get to go places together when we would like too, that being said we were able to get away this past weekend to visit a friend upstate from us. After spending most of the day out we said our goodbyes & the night & next day belonged to us. We went for dinner & drinks & it's wasn't long till my gf was as she calls it "tipsy" she suggested we head back to the hotel to fuck & I quickly payed the check. We got to the room, got naked & hit the bed. While I was caressing her body I mentioned that it was some time since we had been to the swingers club was she still interested in going, & she quickly said yes! That put a smile on my face, I asked what do you want to happen when we go back, she replied " I want someone to carress my body & tits while you finger & eat my pussy. That made it feel like my cock got harder, so I asked & what are you gonna do, she said play with his balls & stroke his cock. Hearing this I stuck my cock deep in her pussy as she moaned & played with her tits, she then asked me to finger her ass while I fucked her so I turned her around & fucked her from behind while slipping my finger in & out of her ass. I asked if she wanted me to fuck her like this in the club & she said yes, I then asked what she was gonna do while I was fucking her like that, she said she was going to suck someone's cock, I said is that what you want, she said yes please! It got me so turned on I exploded all over her asshole & pussy. We are gonna try & work our schedules out for next weekend to hit the club.

I've been to swingers clubs lots of times and love it. I usually don't go further than dirty dancing type stuff lately, but occasionally do go further if the other guy is hot, huge and my partner is ok with it. You have to have a lot of trust and some basic rules, or jealousy becomes a thing really easy. I won't kiss a guy on the lips or be with the same person more than 3 times, for example.

I went with my husband to a fairly nice one a few times. Downstairs was like a nightclub atmosphere and dancing while upstairs was the sex. The were a couple of private rooms but everything else was in the open. There were lots of folks having sex. This was an on-premises club which means sex is allowed in the building. If it's not an on-premises club, you will have to go to a motel room or home with whomever you choose to have sex. It's something to take into consideration before choosing one.

Thanks for the input, it's always nice to have a female perspective. We have always been very honest with each other & never had any jealousy issues. I'm very cool with her past, she was a escort & did quite a bit of amateur porn, which was mostly mmf & gangbang videos. Nothing ever happens that we both don't agree on, & we always play safe

Collette's in NOLA? Wife and I went there a couple times. I don't know if it's still around.

So we made it back to the club Saturday night, my gf looked hot in a see through dress with a crotchless thong on. We had a few drinks & went to look around. It had a good crowd with lots of people playing. We started talking with a couple & hit it off. After a few more drinks we all went to the upper floor to watch & talk some more. The other guy asked the floor person about getting a private room, he got on the list which had a short wait. My girl & I went to get another drink & as we returned we seen the couple we were talking with enter the private room, she asked if we should join them & I said go knock & asked if they want company. She did & they invited us in. We talked some more & they told us it was there first time they were doing this. We could see they were nervous so we told them it was our first time with another couple also, we've been watched but never played with anyone
. I wasted no time in pulling my gfs dress off & stripping down, his wife sat on one end of the bed & he stood in front of her as I lay back on the other side & my girl began to suck my cock. He took his wife's top off & began to caress her tits as she unzipped his pants & started to jerk him off. I flipped my gf over laying her head in his wife's lap & began to suck her tits, I noticed her arms go up to see one hand start to caress his wife's tits & her other began to stroke his cock. He reached down & played with my girls tits. As I sucked her nipple I slid my hand down & felt my girls pussy that was now extremely wet. His wife reached over & stroked my cock as my girl gently reached up & pushed his wife's head to his cock, she began sucking his cock as my girl jerked him off. I moved down to fuck my girl as his wife whispered to my gf would she suck her husband's cock, without hesitation my girl took his cock into her mouth, my cock was now throbbing as I watched my gf sucking & jerking off another guy while I was fucking her. His wife began to play with my girls tits & rub her pussy as we fucked. I pulled my cock out and moved up to the other side of my girls head & she took turns sucking switching from his cock to mine. It was so hot. I moved back to fuck my gf again & his wife bent over and took my cock in her mouth quickly before guiding it into my girls pussy. It wasn't long till I exploded, we cleaned up & went for another drink. They didn't fuck in front of us, it was easy to see they were a bit shy & nervous but it was all good. A great time was had by all & we said till we meet up again as we left for the night