Hi guys and girls. Following a recent topic posted by a user and the demise of their relationship because of the lies and "cheating" it got me to thinking about my actions. I thought about how my girlfriend would feel if she found out about what I get upto on here and I didn't like how it made me feel. As a result of how it's made me think I'm not doing this anymore. I know how she would feel so I owe it to her to either be honest about it or simply stop. I have had fun and thank you for that but I have too good a girl to risk losing. Bye all, enjoy but be honest with the one you love. Regards, graham

your such a pussy to think anyone gives a shit

Now really, one can't complain about people being judgmental
about what goes on here and then be judgmental when someone decides to leave for their own reasons. Piker has just as much a right to feel the way he does andto do what he did as folks who stay and use this site. If you don't agree with him that's fine, but such name calling is uncalled for.

Good for you man, you're not a pussy but actually you are strong willed. This site is our equivalent to facebook or myspace so good for you for quitting it haha.

Sorry to see you go, pikergraham. I hope you enjoyed your brief time here and I hope you enjoy your time with your girlfriend even more.

And I also agree with everyone else that Handsolo is out of line, but also wrong.

One of the best things about Jackinchat is the relaxed, generous tolerance of people who have different sexualities and interests. Handsolo doesn't show any tolerance at all for a guy who has a view that's differnt from his.

Hang on......so you've kept a secret for her? And now you're shutting off a part of your life that she knows nothing about? But you still feel like sharing it with everybody, only proving the point of the importance this site is for you? Well...all my friends (male, female, girlfriends) know they can find me here....
Good luck in your relationship, where you will always have this little secret she will never know, but dozens of strangers do......

And you are such an arse to think that some of us, a tad more human than you, don't give a shit.

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Good luck mate. We all have to live with ourselves and with our actions... and I respect your choice.

Repression sucks. Give me sexual freedom.

get real,so what if your on here. some guys cheat for real this is harmless fun.every man should have secrets of their own. part of the fun and excitement is doing it and not getting caught. would you quit jacking for fear of getting caught ? everyone is different.

Sorry to hear your going Graham. But I agree somewhat with compac. No harm no faul, its kinda like vista for your fantacy life. Your not meeting anyone in person, right. No harm no faul. But you have to live with yourself. I hope it works out for you. And we'll be here if you ever get lonely and need to vent or blow whichever.

Very difficult and admirable decision. I've never even read any of your posts before but you have my full respect. Channel the energy you were using here into researching ways to make your lady orgasm so loud the neighbors hear it. And ignore the buzz-killers. You're way out of their league. Good luck, man.

"And you are such an arse to think that some of us, a tad more human than you, don't give a shit."

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Hairyassguyuk, you're a poet.

Harsh out, Handsolo... And live with the fact that a healthy percentage of people on this site actually respect and care for their fellow human beings. If thinking so makes me a "pussy" in your mind, I won't lose sleep over it.

Have a good life, Graham.

Onan

Aren't some people here taking things just a little too serious? It's a chatroom if I'm not mistaken. If you have cheaten outside this room you could have cheaten in several other occaisions. People chat..... If you want to quit, quit and all the best to you. I hope with all my strength that you will lead a happy life...but it's just a chatroom! Don't treat it's like saying goodbye to your best friends....if you really feel that way you need some serious time to think about where you stand in relationships