i have to agree with you.

yes mine would definitely be shocked. Been married almost 40 years and used to have a great sex life till about 10 years ago she stopped caring and wanting to have sex. Since then other than an occasional female friend I have been having sex with men only

My wife would flip if she knew about the M2M thoughts that run through my head from time to time. I have no desire for anything other than mutual helping hands. I just like the thought of watching and helping a hard cock get off. I just got hard thinking about it...

My prude wife would have a fit. Since kids she Hans been interested in sex for years and nothing at all this year. Even when we do she doesn't really seem into it. I find myself thinking about finding a jo bud just for self and maybe mutal jacking. I'm not looking for long sessions or anything more, sometimes I just need a quick release and love being wanked off. I've had these thoughts for years but probably too worried about getting caught to do anything.

My wife of almost 60years is totally clueless and would be shocked into cardiac arrest, probably, if she knew what I've had my lips on. ' Doesn't know about the female companions back in the day, either. Has no idea how oversexed I am to this day. But, she's my best pal otherwise.

My wife's sex drive essentially stopped at about 39. She's still attractive and still wants it, but too far and between for me. Funny thing is,this is a woman that used to tell me to make her pussy hurt during sex and used to give me blowjobs while driving. SO my kinks have to be satisfied somewhere else. Interesting enough, wife chat fantasy does it for me, among other things...

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I never married but have had a number of girlfriends. I had to grow up at a very young age due to family circumstances so from an early age I've been independent to the point I don't know if I ever could be married. I came close to marriage with two of my girlfriends but alas here I am. I have sexual freedom that remains dear to me.

I recently read a post from a guy whose wife turned off her desire for sex when he was just 31. 31!! Seems cruel given how young he is. His wife is apparently capable of sex but just doesn't want it. So he's supposed to just ignore his desires for the next 50 years?

I missed out on alot by not being married but so many of my married friends want to be me at this point in their lives.

All these revelations telling the same story as my life. Ex GF went off sex completely after many year of what was no holds barred, uninhibited sex. My current GF is turning out to be much similar. Lots of everything imaginable for many years & now almost nothing. I'm lucky to get a HJ.
If she knew I had a jerk buddy, she'd leave. Maybe not that bad an idea after all.

My ex-wife and I were always open with eachother about all our fantasies, turn-ons and everything else. Nothing would have shocked or offended her.
I am open with all my girlfriends. I don't hide things or keep secrets and the women I date are very open minded, as long as there is no cheating going on, but I don't cheat, so that is not a problem.

My wife is not exactly a prude, meaning that she has often surprised me with her open mind, despite being totally uninterested in sex. On my side, despite my masturbation habit, i realised recently that i need sex and human contact desperately. We had remained sexless for nearly 7 years and then i sentimentally collapsed last May. I suddenly fell in love with her and fell to her feet imploring her. It took her time because we were talking of divorce and on really bad terms before that, but then she acknowledged that if we are to continue together she needs to give me some sex. We do it about once a week since August. Not enough for me but much better than before. Mostly i need her to know and see my sexual needs as natural. I admitted my masturbation, my porn habit, the fact that i constantly perv on her. My only secret are my m2m fantasies. I wonder if she would not freak with those...

only 16?

Unfortunately, I'm in this crowded club. I envy guys where their wives are less prudish

At the end of a difficult WE, it was so clear that i need sex and my wife is not ready. She offered to jerk me on the couch instead. Then at some point she got tired and i didnt push it, so we stopped with a promise for tomorrow morning. I,ve gone off to bed (we often sleep separately). Will you be able to sleep? she asked and i made it clear that i'm gonna finish myself up. This is where i'm now. Boner in my hand, my wife downstairs knowing that i'm jerking.