Some of the most intense orgasms I've ever had have been while imagining my girlfriend or exes having sex with another man, either their previous lovers or someone new. It doesn't feel like humiliation and I don't consider myself beta, but there is nothing like the high of picturing my gf or ex with another man inside her, pleasuring herself with his body and the two of them intensely wrapped up in their fucking.

In my previous relationship I became near addicted to thinking about my ex with her previous boyfriend, the sex they had, the orgasms they shared. She told me stories about how she made him cum just as she was bringing me to orgasm - such an intense experience that heightened the feeling as I came.

I'm a jealous person and in everyday life I don't want to consider past lovers or cheating etc, but when I'm aroused there's nothing that gives me quite such a buzz, gets my heart pounding and gets me so hard - I don't feel like I want to feel inadequate or be taunted, but i want to be on the outside watching and matching my pleasure to my gf or ex and another man. When i watch porn i often imagine it's my gf and a sexy guy she's picked up. There's nothing quite like the mix of anxiety and arousal that comes from knowing about previous sexual experiences or imagining new ones...

Does anyone else feel like this? Had a great conversation last night with a similarly minded chatter and want to find others who're into this. Send me a message or look for me in the chat room and let's chat!

I have thought about, chatted about, and jerked off over the same thing regarding my hot indian wife and ex gfs for many years. The biggest cumshots were over thinking and talking about them getting pounded by ex bfs, other strange men or ex-husband, and even thinking about how they got impregnated. PM me to share fantasies

This is my biggest fantasy and i think about it all the time with my wife and some ex's. Most recently one that i jerked off to was; my wife comes home and catches the repair man sniffing her panties and jerking off. He has a huge 9" cock and she is so turned on by it that instead of being mad at the guy, she drops to her knees and sucks his huge cock until he explodes all over her face. So hard typing this!

One of if not my biggest fantasy. Its odd most of my jerk off sessions is me thinking about my wife (usually not the case) but its so hot.

I have so many scenarios

I've only been fanticising about this for about a year but I love the idea of my wife being pleasured by someone else. Much like you, I'm not into humiliation or a beta but it's something I think about often.

For a lot of us it's a reality...

Mmm hot responses, glad to hear others feel the same, would love to chat with you

all too often

I love when she tells me about previous sexual experiences she has had. Love hearing about her girl on girl fun, and the cocks she's sucked.

my opinion is that sharing isn't that submissive act people use to depict. quite the contrary, it is the ultimate control. you can't share what you don't own.

I've been lucky enough to share my cute wife with other men several times. Glad there are others like me out here.

Being in a monogamous relationship I often fantasize about watching my partner with other guys. With my previous partner I never had to fantasize - I watched him wank, suck, and fuck other guys many times, and he enjoyed watching me.

Didn't have to fantasize as it actually happened. Many times. Wife #2 (ex since) would invite old "friends" to visit. She would bang them while I was at work. Never caught on until she couldn't help herself and slipped out of bed one night to visit the guest room. Her moaning woke me up. I played possum when she returned and listened while she flushed his cum out of her pussy in the bath room before she snuck back to bed. Marriage ended soon after.

Yes I understand totally, and I think it is a very common feeling. I am the same in that I don't see it as a humiliating situation - I don't get off on thinking that I am somehow inadequate, I just love the thought of my wife having amazing sex with another guy, and him getting such pleasure from her.

My wife isn't very experienced but she has told me in some detail what she did with her ex, and with a fuck buddy she had before we got together. I knew her at the time so had an idea what was going on which makes it particularly hot for me.

My previous ex loved telling me about men she fucked, how it happened and what they did. After we split we got together a few times just for fun and she would tell me who she had slept with since I last saw her.

All of these experiences have made me cum as hard as anything else I have done. I have particularly loved it if my wife (or my ex when she did it) tells me how she was fucked by another guy while I am inside her, how hard he took her, how amazing it felt, where he came. Never fails to make me blow!

I love having these thoughts too about my prudish wife being fucked by a young guy and also my ex lover in a 3 some with me and a bi mate. The thought of me snogging my ex while she is getting fucked is a huge turn on. Watching her face as another guy enters her wet pussy would be incredible. I wish I had tried to take things further before we split but it's too late now. Although I have film of her being fingered at dogging sites which is a huge turn on.