I'm 33 m and strongly curious.Denver, Colorado

My ideal goal of a local jack off buddy is to find another who is all about the release!
Be somewhat in shape, doesn't have to be rocking a huge cock. I am about 5.5 cut.

Someone who wants to meetup radom places or host and just kick back and stroke watching porn and stroke each other, be up to give and receive oral. And grow to a point of relax where you can just meet up and chill completely naked on a couch or whatever limp and calm. And just enjoy being able to have a cock to play with in a secluded environment, be able to reach over and stroke or suck one hard let alone watch a cock get hard from limb.
Nothing else about a guy is interesting to me aside from cock and cum.

I could be more detailed on what I'd like but I leave the question to you guys.

What is your ideal meetup and goal of a real stroke bud? No limits.

I believe you hit the nail on the head for most of us here. The first thing for me would be no pressure, and get to know one another before starting to play. The idea of having a bond that tight with a guy is erotic in it's own right.

My ideal JO buddy would be someone who is friendly and relaxed. i am into strictly safe sex so we would limit ourselves to playing with each other's cocks and balls, massaging each other's cocks slowly and sensuously til we were both ready to cum. I'm from norteastern Mass. Anyone think that that would be good?

A guy who luvs to pleasure and enjoy a well endowed bud in every way. Discrete of course but needing what I can provide for him and lusting for the time we can be alone

Someone very discrete, very horny and with a wide range of sexual interests.

Someone who loves getting their cock sucked.

A horny bud who's easily available for extended edging sessions. Having a bate den would be a real plus!

a cool, laid back guy who loves to watch porn , mutual Jacking and talking dirty. Should also love to show off his balls, cock and asshole and watch me do the same. Should be totally unabashed about discussing all fantasies and getting as explicit as possible

Ideal JO buddy? Hmm...
Older guy. Preferably married. Stranger. No connection. Meet somewhere other than our house. Chill, porn, stroke. Whatever comes natural. Cum and say bye till next time.

Damn! Got hard and throbbing reading these posts! So needing a jo bud....

Someone who is married (preferably long term and monogamous, so I know he's safe), hasn't had his dick sucked by 50 other guys (so I know he's safe), isn't looking to return the favor and lets me come to his house to suck him off.

Ideally, it would be someone I'm already friends with. That way no one would give it a second thought to seeing me at their house all the time, or at least somewhat regularly. Also, it would be no problem for me to tell my wife "I'm going to Jim's house for a little bit."

The problem with it being someone I'm already friends with is that I have no nearby friends that play that way. Asking them if they're interested in playing that way could be big trouble.

So far, the 2 (there are more) biggest obstacles I've encountered trying to find a suck buddy is finding someone I feel is safe (disease free now AND in the future as I continue to suck them on a regular basis) and having a safe place to do it.

Lastly, location is an obstacle. If I have to "sneak" giving a blowjob into my normal schedule, and still arrive at work/home within a reasonable amount of time of my normal arrival time, I can't be driving 20 minutes in the opposite direction of where I have to be. That's an hour of time that I have to explain. So the ideal suck buddy would also be on the way to/from work...within reason.

Unfortunately, that eliminates a lot of possibilities.

Single str8 guy. In shape, hung and into celebs. Open to helping each other off an bonding from it.

Perfectly said!

You sound like my kind of friend!