Someone around my age, who understands the changes in arousal and performance that comes with age, who I can feel relaxed with and not be expected to perform on command. I speak from the experience of having had a much younger JO bud some years ago, which didn't work for me.

I am always availible

Absolutely. I would want to get to know each other a little first. Stuff to talk about, things like that. More than that, I'd also need to see a dick pic. I've never given oral to a guy before (which I would hope we'd also do) and he would need to have the type of unit that I'd like to give oral to. Also, even though I'm 59, he'd have to be in his 30s or 40s.

My ideal goal is to actually find a jack off buddy

I am seeking a local guy here in Ottawa, Ontario, in a similar situation to me: horny 24/7 with a wife who refuses sex almost always--or completely, like mine. If he has a foreskin--bonus for me!

I would suck his cock and balls to an orgasm--or two. He would not need to do me, but I would not refuse a 69 as we lay on our sides and grabbed each other's bum cheeks as we pulled our members into our mouths. I would swallow his delicious sperm (I eat mine all the time).

Nice replies! My goal would be to find an actual JO bud first. Fit hung attractive MWM here.

About the same age; discreet; reasonably fit; well-groomed and clean; not cheap about getting a site, doesn't insist on just parking and having some cop run up on us; somebody who doesn't have to talk about some fuckin' ball game.

Find a bud to meet locally for wank over porn

The best wank buddy I ever had used to host sessions in his Tyneside flat. He was easy going and very horny. Often there would be five or six of us - naked waist down usually - wanking over porn vids and continental magazines all afternoon! Sadly he moved away and I've never had quite the same opportunity.
Can anyone in NE England accommodate now?

That sounds fantastic. What a shame he moved.

I have long wanted a buddy who I could meet up with from time to time. Tough thing is, it's really hard to find. It's really not common to go there with friends you've had for years, and it's hard to make a new friendship that is also sexual as well. And plus there all the differences in comfort levels with particular activities.

I think that's why I've always ended up going to adult video establishments. Everyone is a stranger and you don't have to worry about going to someone else's house or having them come to yours- it's safe neutral ground. But then I don't feel safe playing with folks who's sexual history I don't know, even though oral and handjobs are pretty much safe, with HIV at least.

Ideally it would be a nice stranger, older (over 50) like me, with a nice cut cock and similar taste in sweeties and respectful of my boundaries and space. We would stroke together and comment on the girls and each other. I always imagine going as far as oral in my mind, but this would likely not happen at first at least.

Probably someone younger who is curious and who finds me the sort of person to help him satisfy his fantasy about mutual masturbation.

Sounds ideal to me ohmy66

My goal is to find someone who is actually willing to meet for mutual masturbation.

drop me a message, may be something id like to try.