idk what to do.
I am very socially awkward and shy, but i have tried. i just cant seem to get anyone to fuck. i have resorted to letting an old guy suck my dick a few times, just so i can feel something other than my own hand. dont know what to do. have tried craigslist even but thats no more

Our next Supreme Court Judge confessed that he war still a virgin while in college but no one asked him about masturbation.

Get a good expensive escort.....its much better and easier then being in a relationship....

Book a holiday in Thailand my friend, guarantee you wont be a virgin by the time you come back! You probably wont be walking straight either, but I blame that on the local beer!

Think you just need to put yourself out there more socially. Have friends help you out of your shell. I am shy and introverted to a point too. I am still a virgin and I am going to be 44. I think it will come when the time is right. Don't resort to having to settle for something less. Eventually you will meet someone who likes you and can go from there.

I can relate to some of the thigs the OP said. I'm not really socially active. Just not ever been something I've been into.

I was 27 when I lost my virginity. Shortly after my 27th birthday I decided after giving it a lot of thought that I wanted to pay for it, so I booked a high-class escort. My taste in women is so high and I don't like to compromise just to get laid. I'd rather just wank over girls who are my taste, so paying for sex with girls way out of my league was something I'd been thinking of for months before I actually went and did it.

It just so happened that at the time of me looking around on Adultwork, the British pornstar Brooklyn Blue was touring down my way. I thought well if I'm going to do this I may as well do it in style. After all, not many guys can say they lost their V with a pornstar and smoking hot big fake titted bimbo Brooklyn.

Needless to say I didn't last long with her, but it was my first time so I wasn't expecting to. I enjoyed it so much though I went back to see her the following week and went for round 2. This time I lasted right until the end and it was amazing.

To be fair both times were amazing and I loved every second. Would definitely do it again, and in fact I have. Actually I went from doing that straight to a sex party and then a gangbang. Maybe that's just me wanting to try different things once, but if you think it may be for you then I'd definitely say go for it.

Technically I'm still a virgin in the way that I have only ever paid for sex, but at least I'm only shagging the top quality girls who I'd never get in the real world, and I'm okay with that.

Just do your homework, look for a decent girl on Adultwork and most of all play safe.

And cheaper!

High class escorts are amazing and certainly know how to please.

I'd suggest that, given this information, you're not a virgin. It might not be your ideal "how I lost my virginity" story, but you've had sex with another person, so the pressure is off, somewhat.

Now, breathe deeply and pursue what you really want to do sexually.