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Hosting, definitely. I'm married and would want my J/O buddy to be married as well so that we both understood the importance of being ultra careful and discrete. But that means we'd both be parnoid about hosting! cry laugh
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keithgnabor Amateur Jackinchatter

399 posts since 2013-12-07
65 year old curious male from south carolina
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SloStroker said:
Two biggest challenges to finding a jerk off bud:

yeah, i can relate, since it would be my first time and not into men, the fun would be the jo time. so much fun in chat want to try in person but not sure how i'd react. just a bud to hang with and share the fun.


1) Finding someone who can host (I'm married)
2) Finding someone who actually wants to meet and not just jerk off as they talk about it

The later is the most common. I meet lots of men online. And they want to trade pics and talk about what they want to do, but few are ever interested in booking a hotel room and planning a meet.

I find most men like the idea of playing with another man.....until they cum. Then they aren't horny anymore and aren't into it.
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keithgnabor Amateur Jackinchatter

399 posts since 2013-12-07
65 year old curious male from south carolina
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lubbocktxguy1 said:
lot of the problem is this site, they have way to many rules, u cant do anything, u cant even share pics, and they ban u.,


not sure if time waster or not, have to try it first, but thinking meeting someone face to face first then changing top to porn might be best, tried long chat time to no avail, but did like getting to know a person and wanting to meet. takes time...
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keithgnabor Amateur Jackinchatter

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jack74 said:
Could not agree more. Too many profiles with no info.At least show location.

that's rich coming from unregistered...
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3032 posts since 2005-08-13
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lubbocktxguy1 said:
lot of the problem is this site, they have way to many rules, u cant do anything, u cant even share pics, and they ban u.,


That prohibition on sharing pics is news to me. In fact, one of the most frequent complaints I get is about some users posting too many pics. So, you may have to be a bit more specific in your complaint.

Are you referring to unsee posts? That has nothing to do with sharing pics, period, and everything to do with the nature of unsee as temporary availability, which results in threads that have more complaints that the pics are gone than anything else. Why clutter the boards with them?

Do you mean keeping the focus of the two chat channels clearly defined? Theres a reason for the two channels - when we just had one for chat and link sharing, the chat got buried in series of links posted. So we split them, and now keep links to share pics in the channel dedicated to doing so.

But, if you look around the site, you will find plenty of pics and links to pics, demonstrating that this claim is false.
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29 posts since 2021-02-06
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hi im 65 married white guy in a sexless marriage my wife reicently retired so she is home so I can not host Im looking for a weekday daytime host for o session
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92 posts since 2015-10-28
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"Finding someone who actually wants to meet and not just jerk off as they talk about it"

I think I fall into this category. Not as someone who always wants to meet, but as the other person who wants to exchange a few messages to make sure we're on the right page.

Most of the time, the other person either wants or says some things I'm really not into, or just asks "when can we meet up?" "where do you live" etc which is just a very sketchy conversation starter.
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Neal85 Novice Jackinchatter

15 posts since 2021-03-24
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Looking for a jo bud is not easy. When you say jo you want just jo. Would love to find another discreet clean guy in Buffalo/WNY area. Just enjoy seeing another guys cock and stroking together.
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