Just curious as to how many think their wives or girlfriends are as kink and pervy as many of us are.

I feel there are many more than one may think. As with us people would never think we are the way we are even though they are.

Do you think your ladies break out the toys and their kinky minds run wild as we do when we are away. I believe a large portion does.

I believe that women/girls can be just as kink and pervy, as we are.

But due to their larger vulnerability and moral judgment, they may keep it more secret and "out of sight", than most males.

I think my ex was just as pervy as me but sadly I don't think fully exploited it as I was not 100% certain. Still had fucking lots of fun though.

You may be on to something. I do know my X was pretty kinky and think more so possibly when alone. I knew she liked lesbian porn from her searches. But she never revealed that side to me. Of course I never revealed this side of me to her.

Well, likeallthings, when your X had this kink for lesbian porn, it could also be due to the fact, that many women - I think - are less "afraid" of showing interest in other women, maybe even without being openly lesbian/bisexual. It is simple a kind of extend friendship to them.

But she might have been concerned about how you would interpret that interest.

Very good point sir. I did not want to ever make her feel uncomfortable about her alone time. The reason I never brought it up. I would have embraced it actually. We both knew we masturbated and encouraged it. But we never discussed what the other did during this time.

Maybe we should have.

Speaking from a womans point of view, I personally know many women who are very kinky but wont show that side often for many reasons. Mostly a confidence issue, or that they simply arent comfortable being that way with their partner.

Sometimes, as a man, you just have to start slow. You know, buy her roses, some wine (or in my case burbon), a nice light dinner, blindfold her ass and get her a dildo. Rock her world for a night and see what happens. If she doesnt like it, it was mild and not like you went right for anal so you shouldnt be in too much trouble

The kink is always there- but you gotta coax it out to play.

If you still have some interest in your X (- and vice versa) maybe you should suggest, that you start an open sexual relationship ?

It might even restart things again ?

I am positive my wife does not masturbate. When I have her on the verge of cumming with a vibrator and try to make her take over the toy, she refuses. I tell her she can do a better job with the speed, pressure, position but she will absolutely will not do it b

I know mine likes us to occasionally go out with her in a thin top and no bra. She gets excited at the thought of men leering at her EE breasts. She's got a bit of kink in her.

My ex-wife, definitely and a few ex-girlfriends.
Some of the girls I masturbate with or have phone sex, cyber sex, sexting or webcam with are pretty kinky.
Some of my female friends that I don't do anything sexual with, but have very open conversations about sexual things with are very perverted as well.
There are some I believe are more perverted than they let on or only get really perverted when they are alone.
Yeah, I agree, I think most women are pretty perverted, even if in secret.

Thank you for your input. I agree with you. I know she liked to explore the darker side if you will when we had some of our best love making sessions.

I am happy to hear from a woman. I know there are plenty out there that enjoy a personal wild side when alone. I see nothing wrong with that at all. Some things are best enjoyed when alone.

We are still good friends. I prefer to keep it that way. I have a wonderful girlfriend now.

[quote=Feminine_MaleLesbian]My ex-wife, definitely and a few ex-girlfriends.
Some of the girls I masturbate with or have phone sex, cyber sex, sexting or webcam with are pretty kinky.
Some of my female friends that I don't do anything sexual with, but have very open conversations about sexual things with are very perverted as well.
There are some I believe are more perverted than they let on or only get really perverted when they are alone.
Yeah, I agree, I think most women are pretty perverted, even if in secret.


Good point. I think so as well

Sounds sexy and fun.