Has anyone here ever 'come out' to their wife about past experiences with a JO buddy and had a positive outcome? sometimes I think she'd be totally turned on, sometimes I think she'd leave...

NFW

My wife no, she knew i loved to jackoff but not with a buddy, after she passed a girlfriend of mine and i got to talking while we were in bed, i knew she loved to play with her pussy and had no problem rubbing in front of me. I asked if she ever played with a girl when younger, she said no but admitted to rubbing here pussy from about 8 yrs old. Then she asked me and told her i started young as well but also had played with a buddy as well, it was kind of funny the more i told her the hotter she got, asked to jackoff as she had her hand buried in her pussy.

Hell NO!!!!!

if she knew what i have done and still get upto she would be gone in a flash

I have told my ex-wife and a few girlfriends about my experiences back when I was growing up of jacking off with other guys and a couple of times I sucked a cock. That was an experimental/curiosity stage for me before I had sex with a girl for the first time. Never was attracted to men or considered myself gay or bi, but at a time when you were usually made fun of if anyone knew you jacked off, it was nice to know you were not the only one who did it and you could share it with others and not feel creepy or weird about something that everyone does and just learning together and figuring out how certain things feel and things to do when the time caaame that we finally would find a girl who would fuck us.
The response every time was that it was no big deal that they believe most guys go through that stage where they jack off with other guys. Sucking the other guys dick may not always happen, but they were sure it happens enough that it would be a normal thing for guys at that stage.
I never played around with guys after my first sexual experience with a girl. In fact, it was several years between jacking with a guy and my first girl I had sex with. I have never had the desire to do that since. It may have been a different story with most of the girls I had told if I still did it or still thought about it, although a couple of girls may have loved it. lol

Feminine_MaleLesbian -

I posted this in another area... is this similar to what you're saying?

I consider myself str8. married, kids, the whole deal. I've never looked at any guy with any romantic/emotional anything. Just never have. No biggy.

And I've had a couple of JO buddies when I was younger, from my teen years, one of which lasted into the early twenties. And those buddies and I experimented, played with each other, and progressed to mutual sucking, some small amount of anal, finishing each other off in a variety of ways...

and although I can say that those experiences were incredibly hot and horny, and even their memory after all these years makes me crazy horny, and I'd like to re-experience them...

but it's not like I'd like to try it somewhere else, or with someone else... it was the raw lust of the moment, getting each other's rocks off... literally giving each other a hand with our horniness...

still consider myself str8, as I've never looked at a guy and thought 'man, I'd like for him to blow me (or vice versa)' but if I had a chance and came across any of the JO buds from my youth, I'd blow and be blown in a heartbeat...

is that bi? curious? dunno. don't care. but thanks to social media, at least I've been able to reconnect with one JO bud from the past. He's in exactly the same boat as me. Married, kids, not into guys. but chatting about the old times has us considering the possibility of getting together and doing some 'reminiscing' about the past... (we've already discussed what we'd do to each other if it happens...)

Having said that, some of you have great looking cocks fromm your profiles.... and yeah, looking at them makes me crazy fucking horny... Again, bi? curious? dunno. don't care. not really looking to find someone new at this stage, (and the trust thing would be HUGE...) but if I could reconnect with an old bud... I'd be naked in a New York minute... and blowing a load in two.

My ex knew I stroked with guys on line all the time. She didn't care as long as I was not fucking another woman on the sly. We did a LOT of swinging. That was cool with her as she got some different cock and I got some different pussy. We could watch each other fucking and sucking.

NFW would I tell my wife of my experiences growing up and couple before we were married!! She even dissolved a friendship of several years when the lady she was friends with tried to make out with her!! So NFW am I ever telling her that I am Bi!!!

i told my wife 15 years into our marriage that i was with guys before her and she was fine with it, i decided to tell her after learning she loved to watch gay porn, married 23 years now and i can tell you our sexlifes are better now than before

That ain't happening here!

My wife knows everything-- it turns her on... she has sent me out to blow guys and bring back pics

Didn't have to come out..she walked in on us.We had talked about my friend before...now he is friends with both of us

There is an old saying, Never tell your wife anything you do not want used against you someday.. just saying

To be honest, OP, there's no telling how your wife will react. She may love it, she may tolerate it, she may pretend you never told her and just look the other way, she may leave.

When I told my wife, it took her a while to come to terms with it, but she now accepts that I'm bisexual. The thought of two men together is not sexy at all to her, so we don't talk about it as much as I'd like because I don't want to make her feel awkward. But she knows I have extensive experience with other guys online and have/do watch gay porn, etc. She doesn't like it but she got past it.

I'd love to hear those details, either here at the forum, through PM, or email (in my profile).