Im 49 and extremely premature when fucking I do well to last 30 seconds

I find it both very exciting and embarrassing

Would love to chat to other premature ejaculators or anyone with questions

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Ok, I'm curious....

Embarrassing I get, but why exciting?

I think I get off on the humiliation of it

and does whoever you sleep with comment on it, do they laugh and humiliate you, are they angry or disappointed, or do they lie and try to make you feel better by telling you it is ok?

Been that way ever since I was a teen.
Worked out very quickly that if I masturbated and ejaculated at home before going out on a date, my staying power for my partner became acceptable.

You can fix it by masturbating but not simply to let one loose early in the day so you're on your second one when it counts. Rather, you masturbate with the intention of learning how it feels when you get close and being able to keep yourself from cumming by slowing down and by tightening your muscles and holding in the cum. If you practice that, you will gain control and be able to last longer when it counts without having to be on your second one. But of course, it requires that you want to have the control.

Same for me. I can cum in a minute if the sex is hot. It's pretty handy if you're a slut like me though. I can meet a stranger willing to bend over for me and fuck him for a quick nut in very public places because we are done so fast. Or have a guy jump in my car and suck me off almost anywhere because it's so quick. So don't be embarrassed, embrace it. Use it to your advantage and meet up with some cum cravers who actually prefer you give it to them quick as you can.

Certainly not everyone is ok with quick cummers though. I set up an anonymous craigslist hookup with a guy who dimmed his apartment, had porn playing next to him and was naked, face down with his ass presented up in the air for me, already lubed up. I was so hard and hot. He was so tight, warm and wet my cock exploded as soon as i shoved it up his asshole. It felt sooooo good but he was pissed. He set all that scene up for nothing lol. Oh well, there was nothing I could do about it. I basically went straight for the door with my rock hard dick still busing out my pants.

Anyone try KY Duration or similar products to help last longer? Sometimes just a condom helps.

I'm a premature ejaculator also. Basically, as soon as I get erect I feel like I'm going to ejaculate. So I'm constantly holding back, trying not to cum. Then I stroke or pump as long as I can until I can't hold it any longer. Sometimes I last 10 seconds, sometimes a minute or two. If I jack off once a day, I'm okay. And if I go really slow, I can last much longer. But I like how it feels when I pump one out fast, without holding back. It just feels so much better.

I have the opposite problem. Takes me forever to cum. My wife would love it if I could cum fast.

It happened to my JO buddy he was looking at a nude pic of my wife and I stroked him for just a moment and he exploded. He was embarrassed but I told him it was ok and then I blew my load as well.