Hey guys. I have accepted that I am bi, but I feel like I am getting gayer. I find guys to be so sexy and arousing, but I find some women hot to. I have way more specific tastes for women than men. Is this "normal" for bi guys? I am kind of isolated and have no one to ask so I figured I would ask here.

When you're no longer interested in women and only guys turn you on, then I'd say you're gay. If you're still interested in women and men, then I'd say you're bi. But really, who cares about labels.

There is no"normal". If you are more drawn to men instead of women cool. if its 50/50 or 80/20, cool. There is no one way to be bi, or gay, or straight.

I still consider myself straight because im only attracted to women when it comes to looks or that women I want to date, you know romantically. As for guys only thing that interest me is the interest in there cocks when Im horny. I dont walk down the street and look at men like I do women.

Same here, but I consider myself bi. Not that it matters...

If it feels good do it . My gate swings both ways . I love cock love the way they look and feel . And love to suck them . It's mostly about what turns you on .

Well said, I'm the same way and like to jack cock

Maybe it might help to not think of it in terms of gay or straight. As the previous responses imply, those words are almost meaningless. Even for yourself, just because you thought you were straight, but then you started to get turned on by guys. That means that you were probably never "straight" to begin with even though you though you were.

Just enjoy what you want to enjoy (responsibly!) and go with that. Let your sexual identity define itself by your actions rather than words. It's always worked for me.

Thanks guys. This has helped a bit. I will figure it all out.

If you define "normal" as "do a bunch of other guys have similar feelings," the answer is yes, this is very common and natural. Like many men, including the ones on this thread, I masturbate to images of other men, and will have sex with another man if the opportunity arises, but I don't feel any romantic attraction to men, and pretty women still turn me on.

Regarding getting "gayer," yes, that's normal too. Our tastes change over time. I used to drink only beer, now I enjoy hard liquor. I used to only masturbate to hetero porn, now I masturbate to mostly gay. Your body and mind are evolving, like everyone's, so just relax, enjoy the ride, and have fun.

I think that for me, bisexuality has sexual and romantic sides.
Personally, I don't find many men attractive (except Ryan Reynolds, because, well....), but find most women attractive.
However, I find myself watching a lot of guy on guy porn because I like cocks. I like looking at them, playing with them and seeing them cum.
I had a relationship with a guy for a few years a long, long time ago, and we never kissed or anything like that. There was no emotion with it, there was just physical pleasure.
But with a woman, although the physical side is of course very important, the emotional part comes out easily.

Did any of that make sense?

I guess, tl;dr, everyone's slightly different, go with what you like, and don't worry about it.

I totally agree. The one thing which has to be foremost is responsibility particularly if there are others in our circle of family and friends which may be greatly affected.

Mid-40s here in Texas. Grew up in a VERY small town. A lot of ignorance in how I was raised. But...we didn't know what we didn't know. Did what we all do, grew up became educated and started a career. Along the way met a girl, got married, and now have 2 kids in their teens. My curiosity about m2m exploration and play began in my early 30s. Nothing groundbreaking or monumental happened. I just started to wonder what it would be like to play with another guy's cock, felt like a natural progression because I love playing with mine. I have had some very limited experiences with men. But I thoroughly enjoyed each one. I love women and enjoy a decently "healthy" sex life but my curiosity still churns and grows. I have moved to teasing my ass and have come to realize that is VERY enjoyable. I agree with what most are saying here...
Is a label really required? Does it matter if you are hetero/bi/gay? Why isn't it enough to be a loving tax paying adult who enjoys experimentation, exploration, and gratification? And off topic...why is it soo damn hard to find a friend to explore and experiment with!?!?!?!?

Stop questioning. Go enjoy your life!!!!! Enjoy yourself!!!!

I am a sexual guy will pleasure anyone

Well if it helps I love pussy, fucking licking fingering etc.
I love a dildo in my ass, I love a butt plug in my ass, I love to suck another's cock I love to swallow cum. I first sucked cock at age of 8 played with my first pussy at age of 8 have loved both, am 77.