More a curiosity than anything, as I see quite a few people complaining about their partners, the lack of sex, plus the fact we're all on a masturbation forum

So, would you leave your partner if you could? - If so, why?

I wouldn't say leave but it frustrates me to no end that I can't just pull up a chair and edge for hours on end or go out as much as I did before I co-habit-ed with family.

I do love sex, but nothing beats a fantastic orgasm while wanking...or wanking with others!

Thanks for your reply and for your input.

I hear ya!

My wife and I masturbate together, or sometimes I just jack off while in bed with her. She enjoys it.

Because you enjoy masturbation doesn't mean your wife doesn't.

I never came to that conclusion.

Good for you. It's good that you both share enjoyment in masturbation.

I don't think I would leave but rather bring in whatever or whoever I felt could be an addition to make life more pleasurable.

Haha! Great answer. Thanks for posting

Had thought of it many times, but she is a Dom and I love being her slave!

Ha! Fair point

Way too difficult and expensive. Between masturbation and massage parlors I get enough sex so that would not be a good reason.
Easier just to stay with her. And her moods. And my moods.
Old dog, new tricks. Ain't gonna happen.

The only reason I would leave her is financial shenanigans. Nearly anything else I'd figure out how to tolerate. But don't mess with my retirement. I'm too old to start over.

I would never leave unless he seriously fucks up bad. I have it pretty good and I make sure he is satisfied in every single way possible. But I have been in a shitty marriage and can sympathise with those who are too. I left mine, and foudb a happiness I never knew was possible. Don't stay for kids, or money, fuck all that. It doesn't matter if you are miserable.

No, we have been married 60 years +. We are both sex addicts . So I like it where I am. No place to go at my age. LOL

I occasionally yearn for my younger days when I was in an open relationship and I could suck and fuck whoever I wanted, with or without my partner. I have fond (and horny) memories of threesomes, foursomes, fivesomes, and moresomes, but my partner of 30+ years (and now husband) insisted from the start it was monogamy or nothing. Always hoped he might change his mind but no luck, dammit!

If I didn't have to give her alimony and half my retirement that she never contributed on dime to I'm run away as fast as I could.