It seems like since CL went away it is so hard to find a guy to hook up with. I have tried doublelist but it seems like that is just a blow n go or whatever. Has anyone had any luck anywhere else?

In my area, Some use the "missed connections" section on CL. Tried it for the first time couple days ago. Had 2 responses that didn't "turn me on" and took my ad down. Prolly try again.
Nearest Double is 85 miles away and when I used CL (back in the day) it was for, more or less, imitate gratification.

Try Silverdaddies, I have met and sucked many men from there and have never had any problems at all