A lot of us here have a close male friend who we are able to hang out with and talk sports or life over a beer or plan a secluded fishing trip together. Society doesn't think much of those types of close male friendships. I wish it were more common and acceptable for men to have those types of close friendships but with the focus being masturbating together.

We pretty much all grew up with this intense taboo surrounding masturbating: you never discuss it. You do it alone and in private. There's a culture of shame around the idea of it. Yet you know that you do it, your best friend does it, your coworker does it; if anything it is the one thing all men have in common, yet none of us are open about it. I wish something like "I love to masturbate! Oh, you do too? Nice! We should hang out sometime. What do you enjoy jerking to?" Was a more common conversation between close male friends. We talk about how men struggle with emotional expression and intimacy, but having those kinds of friends would allow many of us to fill an intimate void we all lack.

I would love make an online friend who understands where I'm coming from. Feel free to message me on my Skype at syntheticdreams2077

Good stroking!

Very well said.

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30 m here.
I can be that masturbating friend to you

I don't think there are many of us that would disagree with you. And, as you can see from where people are located it's a truly international 'issue'. Probably wrong word to use, but I'm sure you understand what I'm getting at

Buddy this is so true for all of us, its the thing that we all do, but we can't talk about it, for some, we do share it with our best bud, but for many - its just this thing that we all enjoy, like sports, fishing, drinking or whatever.... but its this secret life. Thanks for sharing it man, I'm older, but I'd gladly chat with you anytime bud.

The problem with it as I see it, is the sexual nature of jacking off. Being naked, dick out, vulnerable.

Even close jo friends would be uncomfortable sharing that one video that made them nut so hard when home alone if it's something against what society thinks is "normal" for a dude to wank to.

We are complicated beings, doesn't mean that that perfect buddy that shares our same desires doesn't exist but it's hard to find, it'll always be as we aren't 100% thruthful even with our closest friends.

Very nicely said "SyntheticDreams"! Sadly, our "correct" society created what their ideal guidelines are to be for all people. Most guys desperately want what you stated about having another male to bond with. The initiative to find that right person falls back on our selves taking the first step to being more proactive in the search!

Just a slight bump. Still open and seeking to make a friend to bond with and befriend while sharing our love of masturbation. My Skype is syntheticdreams2077

Nice man. Liking for the same.

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I've talked to a bunch of guys over the years who said they are straight but then always preface but jo with guys. I think it has a lot to with the homo eroticism that comes with having any kind of close intimate contact with another man even if you were just naked and were stroking yourselves to a porn. There is a lot of guys who talk about trying to jo with a guy in person but more than likely don't follow thru with it in person because of everyone's fight or flight response. Everyone wants to be secure in their masculinity and straightness. You see it with women, Sex and the City is kind of an example, that you can have close friendships but you don't see it as much with men because we are all supposed to be stoic and not be so emotionally based. It really depends on where you fit on the much larger sexual spectrum and what your comfort level is. It's unfortunate that not enough guys not necessarily speaking of sexual closeness but social closeness with close personal friends where you can talk about anything and it's OK but also there it is sometimes easy to blur the lines between a close friendship between two guys or seeing as something more where it gets more emotional and you do develop strong intimacy, but that is where it becomes a huge gray area of not wanting to define it and putting no labels and call it whatever you want because it's just between you and the other person. I think I have a better understanding now from hearing other people's stories and their same sex experiences that everyone's lives are different being exposed to different things. You have to walk a mile in another person's shoes to understand. Always circles back to communication.

Just giving a bump. Still seeking that male companionship through masturbating. Skype is [email protected]

I love to jerk off with other guys..i love to skype when I have the time..