Hoping to talk with other men that have erection problems. I have erectile dysfunction but I still like to wank and i have found that since the problems i have become even more dirty minded.
Contact me if you're in a similar situation and like to talk.
Straight guys only please.

Hi I am 63 married uk.

I have the same problem.

I still like wanking when im soft and sometimes it gets semi hard when i watch dirty porn.

I can still cum even if im soft.

I suffer from that slightley and also I cant cum while having sex I used to be able to manage it now I can only cum if I masterbate does anyone else have that problem? Its so frustrating

I think mine has come from medication for hypertension. I have the blood pressure under control but the lead is gone from the pencil. I have become more dirty minded as well. Additionally I have become more accepting of my bisexual curiosity. Haven't acted upon it but enjoy exploring it and other taboo things on Wickr and here.

I've been an avid masturbator since I was about 12 and always got fully erect for my bates. But discovered my erectile dysfunction the first time I tried to have sex - yep for some reason I could never get erect for my fucks, only for my bates.

I did visit a doctor or two about it but I never really filled them in with the details. One doctor did give me a prescription for Viagra and I did try it for my bates but I didn't need it for those. It did make me perhaps a bit stiffer and more aware of my cock.

But for sex you need to take Viagra ahead of time, guess an hour or so. And I never really knew ahead of time if I was going to be having sex so I never did try the medication to see if it would have helped me.

Then some years back I stopped getting erect for my bates too. Yes, I miss getting erect but don't think its made me more dirty minded. I'm still a very avid bator and cummer, doing it every morning.

I've not mentioned it to my doctor about my erection issue. Perhaps its related to my diabetes.

I find that because of ED I can now jackoff for much longer periods and it feels as good, if not even better, when I do cum - now!

If your only 49 years old, you should be talking about this with your Doctor. You are too young to have ED. While this may be a conversation you don't want to have with your Doctor, trust me, he's had it with many other patients.

Because of high blood pressure meds - I sometimes can't get hard especially if I jerked off recently. In those times I use a cock ring which always results in a nice hard erection.

I do not get hard enough to fuck my wife but I still get a real good orgasm when I JO or when my wife gives me one of her great BJs or HJs. Not getting hard does not prevent me from cuming just as good as when I was able to get rock hard.

Bp meds caused some problems at first but i got passed them. Now i take meds for prostate problems. Still get good and hard but sometimes i dont ejeculate. I always orgasm though. I do sometimes have a problem staying hard when fucking my wife. Lately ive not cum while fucking her. I think its a few different things to be honest. The meds have a small part in it but so does the fact that my wife has nearly no grip left in her pussy and i havent been real intrested in fucking her in a long time. I always get hard jacking and can even jack 2 or 3 times a day. I tried viagra. For fucking it was pretty good but man do i get extra hard with viagra when stroking.

Do you find yourself making excuses for not having sex with your wife because you don't want to explain to her that you are afraid you won't get it up very well?

I have the same issue. I am pretty sure it is the meds I take as well. I take an anxiety med that is probably causing the issue. In addition, I have Type 2 diabetes. Viagra does seem to work a bit but it causes some other issues (face feeling hot, blurred vision, etc.) I sure do miss my little buddy.

I have ED too & I got one of these Penis Head vibrators. Ohhhh my god, this is to wonderful!!!! all i do is slip it over the head of my cock & turn the vibrators on & oh my god!!!! Needless to say I Very Highly recommend!!

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I am 52, overweight and I take blood pressure and cholesterol medicine. I have a good size uncut cock and like probably everyone on here I am an avid masturbator. Until recently I never had an ED problem but I have always had a problem with cumming during sex (even as a teen an in my 20's). Typically I would fuck my wife until she would cum (usually with the aid of a magic wand) and then I would jerk off on her tits after. A few years ago she started really getting into anal sex. Unfortunately I had stents put in my heart about that time and it resulted in me having trouble getting as hard as I like or staying as hard as I like, both of which make anal sex difficult at best. I remember being a teenager and my uncle describing his ED at the time as "trying to stuff a wet noodle up a wild cat's ass" and it fits perfectly. And of corse nothing kills a would be erection like your wife asking "what's wrong?" or "aren't you hard?". Anyway, to make a long story just a little but longer ... I finally asked my GP about some Viagra 2 years ago. I did not like it. It made me very hot and flush and gave me a strong headache. It has to be timed correctly to use and even then it didn't seem to help me that much. Then I went to my urologist and he prescribed a once daily TROUCHE (dissolves under tongue) of TADALAFIL 20MG and it worked much, much better. My insurance (Cigna) won't pay for it, but I get a box of 120 doses from a local pharmacy for $100 - less than $1/day and I can get as hard as I like (even hard enough to fuck my wife in the ass) basically anytime. Sorry for the long tale but when it comes to these things I believe the more information you have the better. feel free to email me if you have any questions, I would be glad to answer them.

I'm 70, overweight & on cholesterol medication but I think that has little bearing on my ED. None of the ED meds work as designed. Yet I have woken during the night rock hard. Like others, I can still make my softy cum.
Anyone heard of Peak Wave Therapy?