She would watch if not join in and help me.

She used to wake up and we fucked or she would give me a blowjob or handjob. Now she wakes up, turns over, and goes back to sleep. Enough said.

I'm so envious of guys who can JO in front of their wives. I've never done it, probably due to my own reservations as opposed to what she might say or do if she saw me doing it. The closest I've ever come is to do it in bed next to her when she's asleep.
I'd love to do what they often show in videos with the wife kneeling in front and him shooting all over her face.
The stupid thing is, I'm sure she wouldn't mind if I did it. She first did it for me when she was just 17 and she's been doing it for me for the past 53 years. Sex is no longer an option due to her health, but she still helps me out either by hand or orally. If it's a hand job, she always watches me cum, so I'm sure she'd have no problem watching me do it myself.
Maybe one day I'll pluck up courage and try it.

There was a time in our marriage she would rollover and give me a blow job just so she could go back to sleep!! Now she just yells at me to put it away or go to another room!!

Depends on her mood... either she'd complain, roll over, and try to go back to sleep, or,

She'd wake up and watch. Probably end up getting together. Watching me JO is one of her turn-ons...

My wife joins in. We often masturbate ourselves in front of each other. She has caught me numerous times jacking off and I've caught numerous times fingering and rubbing her pussy. We always smile and join in.

When that happens she usually gets turned on by it and we end up messing around and having sex.

usually she says,, ffs go and do that in the bathroom,,,, and clean up after u