Your wife thinks you are sick if you like to watch porn. Your wife thinks once a week for sex is plenty. Your wife does not understand you need to JO no matter how often she gets you off. Your wife gets pissed when she catches you JO even though she knows you do it. Your wife would think you were a perv she knew you would like to JO a least once a day. If your wife knew You JO 2 or 3 times a week she would think you were a perv. If your wiife new how much time you spent watching porn she would be pissed. That is why I keep that from her. What about you guys, what do you have to keep from your wife to keep piece?

You are so right!

Sureshot, your wife thinks that way probably because of her age. You are 78 so I'm guessing she is the same or close to 78. It's a generational thing along with being taught sex was naughty. My wife is 61 and has no problem with any the things you mentioned. When we got married over 40 years ago I told her from the start that I like to jerk off alot and I wasn't going to stop just because we have sex every day. She said ok and I like to masturbate too.

I've never been married but i would never judge my partner for masturbateing. I would honestly leave any one would wouldn't let me be my self and play when i want and how i want.

How can two people get married without all of these matters being totally out in the open beforehand? Anything else, surely, is a recipe for a life of unhappiness and dishonesty.

Definitely agree.
My wife saw me stroke, suck and swallow before we were married and many times after. I wouldn't have married her if she didn't like it.

I did not JO while dating my wife. She gave me plenty of BJs and HJs. I did not start JO until about 6 years into our marriage and then it was to Playboy center folds and stories in Variations magazine which I contributed to. There was no internet then and all the porn you could want. When porn got easily available I started to JO more. I did not tell my wife and she caught me about 18 years ago and was pissed. I am happy for you guy that have a wife that does not care if you JO. I am also happy for myself to have a hot MILF wife that gives me great BJs and HJs and I know turns quit a few heads and you guys would love to JO to her. I am glad my wife loves me knowing I like to JO to porn even though she does not understands my needs.

My wife neither like me jacking off or goes for me using the Internet to jackoff. She neither sucks nor fucks. Married 50 years and nothing to be done but sneak here and look at pics and read other's experiences, which helps me jackoff.

My 2nd wife and I watched porn together for many years and during the last 10 years she would say are you sick or something and my3rd wife would encourage it to get me excited and warmed up.

My wife knows I jerk off but if she catches me doing it while watching porn, she gets pissed off.