Ok so I am a married guy with a good life and generally a good wife but she had no sex drive and that is not going to change. I am a guy that would occasionally like to have sex with another guy and I am thinking about finding a guy like myself for occasional sex when the urge hits. It will be an exclusive thing where neither of us would have to worry about catching anything. Does anyone else have or had anything like this?
Did your wife know the guy like he is just a friend and knows nothing about the sex?
Just interested to know some details...

I see another married guy about every 3 weeks when his wife visits her mother for a few days. What began as wank suck fun has evolved into totally uninhibited gay love makeing. We are in tune with each others needs and desires. Its the best sex iv ever had.

That is pretty interesting....how quickly did it evolve and I guess what do you mean by uninhibited gay love making?

Nothing is off limits. With much practice when we 69 we usually bith cum at the same time. The feeling of my lover filling my mouth with hot cum as i fill his is amazing. We then kiss passionatly and swap and share the cum. Then just lie together. Holding each other.

If it were possible to 'love' this, like on Twitter, I would. Utterly lovely - and very happy for you xxx

Wow! that is pretty intense....is it purely in the aspect of sex or had it turned into a love type relationship? Had either of you considered leaving your wives? Do you still enjoy women?

God i wish. At our age it would be too complicated with dire financial consequences. We have no wish to hurt our wives and familys but we both are trying to make it a more frequent arrangment.

I have something similar to bihubbysouthport. I'm a lot older but I started something the same about four years ago. My friend's wife visits her mum every month so we get together at his house for a bit of naked fun. We don't have uninhibited gay sex, but we have great fun just masturbating and sucking eachother. It's a first for both of us and we left it late in our lives, but it's great fun and totally different from doing the same sorts of things with the wife.
I was anxious about taking cum in my mouth at first but now I love it. I'm not into kissing but my friend is, and I have to admit, kissing with mouthfulls of cum is fun - disgusting perhaps but good fun.
It wasn't planned that we'd meet eachothers wives but we have. We just bumped into eachother at the garden centre one day. They don't know what we get up to, but it's made things a lot easier. I just tell my wife I'm off to help out with a DIY project.
So, it's working well for my friend and me, and no regrets.

Wow thanks for the insight baggsy2011. That is kinda the situation I am interested in. I sucked a random guy a while back which was fun but if I do it again I intend for it to be a regular. There is not really any sex between two guys that is off putting...I think it is all sexy but I have no interest in falling in love either....that is cool everyone has met but does not know anything about the sex part.

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I hear you. I have a great sexual relationship with my wife and yet I've always found myself curious to do things with another guy. I think only guys 'really' know 'exactly'to pleasure another guy. I regularly find myself wanting to explore with a guy. Whether it's too play with another cock in my hand or my mouth or eventually to take it in me. I bought toys to see if I wanted to explore further. As yet I haven't found my prostate bit it's something I'd love to explore with a guy of I get the chance. I'd also be in to just chatting with a guy and slowly taking things further before being sexual online and then an eventual meet. But yeah it's so hard to find like minded people or moments where these things could naturally happen.

My thoughts exactly.

I've been the side bit for a handful of men over the years. Some married, some not.

By side bit, I mean I am on the wet end of blow&go arrangements. He comes over, I suck him off and he gives me his cum and leaves.

Easy and stress free. He gets what he wants, and I get what I want.

I am in a similar situation. A week ago I met a guy online (not here) who wants to get together and give me a blowjob. At first I was hesitant, flattered, and a bit curious. The more we keep talking the more interested I'm becoming. I'm seriously considering trading BJ's with him and even watch each other masturbate.

Should I? I've never seen an erect penis in real life or even touched a naked man. But I'm so curious...

I've wanted a relationship with a man for many years. I love my wife and she is really a great person. She would have sex more often if I put out but usually I'm not interested in getting started. It isn't that I'm completely put off by her but we've been together so long and the sex just hasn't done it for me in over 20 years. To be honest I'm not sure it ever really did. I've always wanted to explore new things in our sexual relationship and for most of our marriage of 30 years it just hasn't happened.

Really just recently, like the past year, we've started trying some things. We've started showering together just for fun and explored some anal fingering and licking. I've wanted her to fuck me for years but we've not gone to that extent yet. Problem is sex is boring. I'd rather just masturbate to porn than start fooling around just to be left frustrated at the end of it. I have not cum during intercourse for 25 years and usually just give up after I get her off with my mouth or she rubs off on my leg. Even then while we're both masturbating I stop after she's done because I know I'm not going to cum.

Anyway, back to the point... I do have a guy who I get together with occasionally. We make out and suck each other and I get to swallow his cum, which is my favorite thing to do. I do not cum with him either, unfortunately, so I just stop and let him mellow after taking his load. We lay together and hold each other and eventually get up and get dressed. I wish I saw him more often but my wife doesn't know about him at all. What I would really like is an established friendship with a guy who wants to be with me sexually. Then the sneaking around wouldn't be such an issue.

Does it turn into a loving relationship? Absolutely. When we first started seeing each other it didn't take us long to express our love to each other. I broke it off after a while because it was getting to intense for me to manage with my real life. We did start seeing each other again though, after about a year, and I love it. I do love him but we're keeping it as casual as naked male sex friendships can be, I guess. I know it isn't ideal and I feel badly that we cannot take it to the next level but I do have a family that I don't want to destroy.

But a guy has needs that a wife just cannot fulfill.