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I definitely think how much I jerked at younger age effected me in later life. I started dry cumming at 11 until about 12 1/2, then my sperm started showing up. From 13 til 20 I was a chronic jerkoff like most males. I got in my 1st pussy at 20, but I remember thinking,, this does not feel as good as my hand. I still jerkoff regularly from 20 to 30 when dated girls. got married at 30 and still loved to jerkoff, this was also when the internet was coming on so chatting with men and looking at porn got easier then going to porn stores. by 36-37 I was starting to have trouble staying hard inside my wife, I needed to jerkoff to get a really solid erection.by 38,, I was done with pussy,, I started edging a lot. now I am 58 and only sex I get is edging with other men online. I feel strongly that my early chronic jerking set me up to be solo-sexual and very bi curious.
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I would definitely agree that early experiences have led to my tendencies today. I started masturbating when my best friend got me to compare during a sleep over when I was 11 and he was 10. From that point forward we did lots of exploring, experimenting, comparing. We eventually made each other cum for the first time. He moved away when he was about 14 and I moved on to my first girlfriend at 15. At this point i had a very high sex drive and was constantly wanting to explore and try new things. My next mutual JO experience with another guy was in college with my roommate after a night of drinking. Now in my adult years...married..family....I often find myself jacking and wondering what it would be like to try it with another married bud. I JO whenever the family is out and I have some alone time at home...finding a chat room..searching for other married buds...and chatting about desires to JO with another bud again. And sometimes...I will JO remembering the days of jerking with my best friend back in the early days...and wonder if he ever thinks about it and JO too. And now after reading all of these...and sharing my own experiences...I'm hard and jerking grin
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I was around 12 when I started wanking. I didn't think about bisexuality at all until I saw a woman in a porno sucking off a guy and getting her mouth filled with cum, and I knew that was what I wanted. I was 21 when I had my first bisexual experience.

The switch flipping on was instant, too.
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I am fascinated reading these. I wonder how much is true and how much is fantasy. I had a hypersexualized early life as well...but have no idea how it led to feelings today. I am masturbating as I read these posts above grin

My stuff is all true. Some of the things I say here I have never told a soul. Its great confessing your darkest secrets to strangers who dont judge.
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In my early day I was an avid catalogue wanker
Many years later I still prefer dressed more than I do porn
Also my experience on here tells me I am not alone

Sears catalogs were what we had at home so that is what I masturbated to. I especially loved the bra/panty and bikini models who were my age. My mom caught me one day with fingers on my erect cock and left hand holding catalog pages I had rescued from a thrown away catalog. I was 16. (I was a virgin till 30.) She told me I needed a real gf and not to rely on photos and fantasies. Little would she know that 54 years later I still enjoy my solosexual ways with pictures of bikini- and lingerie-clad babes.
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To some degree it is an influence. When young men first start to play around with themselves, they first discover what kind of porn makes it easier for them to squirt out a load. If they get more interested in bating, they start to explore new ways to masturbate, new ways to stimulate their bodies, new male toys they can use to give them new pleasurable sensations with self stimulation. Ultimately, this leads to an appreciation of his male parts as a tool to produce pleasure, not just something to make babies with some good feelings as a side dish. He becomes more confident in his use of his body as a man.
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I feel like I had same exact experiences.
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MWM, 42. I started masturbating years before i could spurt cum, but I still did it at least once a day. I was really naive about girls growing up, and found it easier to play naughty with other boys, which I did from about 9 right up til I got married. But those memories still stimulate me a lot.
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This makes some sense. I can relate to this.
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was more or less my experience as well, just that I played at that age with both girls and boys. maybe why i like both for masturbation fun. Memories is still vivid

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MWM, 42. I started masturbating years before i could spurt cum, but I still did it at least once a day. I was really naive about girls growing up, and found it easier to play naughty with other boys, which I did from about 9 right up til I got married. But those memories still stimulate me a lot.
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Like most boys, I began masturbating at around the age of 11 or 12, some years before I was start5ed having sex with girls when I was 16, so I had become what you might call a habitual masturbator in my early teens, which I don't think was unusual. It was also very common among boys of my age to play with each other's cocks, sometimes just fondling and sometimes full-on wanking. I can't deny it was all very pleasurable, as was solo masturbation which I consider a particular kind of pleasure, along with eating good fiid, drinking good wine or whatever your choice of beverage is, or enjoying music or films. It's something we are born to do, I believe. When I had my first real girlfriend at age 16 and we began fucking I continued to masturbate daily, and that continued into my marriage, including mutual wanking with my best friend which my then-wife, who was sex mad herself and bisexual, enjoyed taking part in. After we divorced when I was in my mid-thirties I suddenly had a lot of women interested in me and I had as much sex, some of it kinky, than I ever dreamed of, yet I still continued to masturbate because I believe that masturbation is a pleasure we are entitled to.
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Like most boys, I began masturbating at around the age of 11 or 12, some years before I was start5ed having sex with girls when I was 16, so I had become what you might call a habitual masturbator in my early teens, which I don't think was unusual. It was also very common among boys of my age to play with each other's cocks, sometimes just fondling and sometimes full-on wanking. I can't deny it was all very pleasurable, as was solo masturbation which I consider a particular kind of pleasure, along with eating good fiid, drinking good wine or whatever your choice of beverage is, or enjoying music or films. It's something we are born to do, I believe. When I had my first real girlfriend at age 16 and we began fucking I continued to masturbate daily, and that continued into my marriage, including mutual wanking with my best friend which my then-wife, who was sex mad herself and bisexual, enjoyed taking part in. After we divorced when I was in my mid-thirties I suddenly had a lot of women interested in me and I had as much sex, some of it kinky, than I ever dreamed of, yet I still continued to masturbate because I believe that masturbation is a pleasure we are entitled to.
A similar experience for me, started wanking with my best friend when I was around 12 and for several years we took every opportunity to masturbate each other with long edging sessions whenever time permitted. Also had occasional sessions with a couple of school friends who admitted to enjoying mutual masturbation. Good times fondly remembered. Since then have always enjoyed masturbation as much as and sometimes more than penetrative sex. Have been fortunate to meet up with a couple of ladies who had similar tastes and who I persuaded to participate in long edging sessions. Still masturbate to porn whenever the opportunity arises and have had some mutual masturbation with other guys in porno cinemas.
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I started playing with my dick around 4 or 5 years old. I do not remember exactly the first time I shot a load - maybe around 12. I have a pretty normal life with a wife and kids (now all grown up and out of the house). I jack off very often and like risky stimulations like when driving or flying on long international flights or in secluded parks. Long edging sessions are my thing now that we are empty nesters. My wife was really not into masturbation and does not really understand my need to do it, but she tolerates it more and I spend much time naked when at home. I usually am not aloud to masturbate in front of her directly - but will do it when she is home and busy on phone calls or goes out shopping. The best is that she travels to visit her sisters a few times a year for a week or so. I usually stay naked the entire time and bate continuously. She always calls to check on me; ask what I am up to. I just tell her I am hanging around naked - she knows the rest. strokestrokestrokecockcockcock
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The older neighbor kid that taught me how to masturbate properly definitely got me more interested in cock. I guess he more or less 'normalized' jacking off for me. I still love sex with the wife, but still masturbate a lot and definitely admire the cocks I see.
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for me it all started at about 9-10 climbing swing set poles. I would get such a good feeling in my groin. didn't know what that was then, later found out it was a dry orgasm. I did that for a few years as often as I could, became addicting.at about 12 started using my hand and at 13 started shooting. to this day I still masturbate a lot, I think its all because of my younger experiences. I often wonder if i'm alone with the pole climbing.any one else ever do the same?
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