Interesting topic. I'm overweight at the moment, and I'm not going to go on a crash diet to impress a buddy with some killer abs. I mean, we're not mating. lol

Overall it's a matter of general health, and that's the same as sexual health. I was taking some boner killing medications, and finally just said stop. Taking time to exercise always clears up everything for me, and a healthy libido helps with exercise, and vice versa.

So, I don't look at it as a matter of vanity, or of wanting to impress someone, or being liked. We all want to be easy on the eyes, but the real matter would be health and wellness. I mean, if you want look like a porn star and do steroids and get your bodyfat down to 9% you might look hot on cam, but you'd also change a lot of friends in real life with your new lifestyle choices.

When push comes to shove I'm sedentary as a stone. lol Give me a book, a laptop, chat online with friends. So just like my parents used to drag me to the gym and I hated it, but appreciate it now, I have to drag my fat butt to the gym and hang out getting physical.

Thing about the gym is, you know with a high degree of certainty everyone there is getting into or staying in good health, and they enjoy sexual health too. So the guys are masturbating, the girls are doing yoga, and splits, and looking hot and sexy and leaving a lot to the imagination. Maybe you just need to reframe it, and see it in a different way, as an opportunity for better health and sexual health, becaue they're the same. For me, the gym became kind of like a real-life JO club after awhile. Times have changed. But to some degree everyone who goes to the gym hates it, they just love the results, and after a while you get to know everyone and it's completely cool. I've graduated to online buds now that I'm more mature, hah.

I have been a member of biggercity dot com and it might be what you want. On there I am jkink60 if you check it out.

Heavy 70 year old here with small cut bone. Love to stroke and cum with other big guys on cam.

I am new this whole jerk off buddy thing. Because of my weight im very intimidated by cam. I have been to a nude resort and enjoy the sights of both male and female. It is nice to know there are other men like me.

would like to chat some with you...

I'm kinda fit but been injured so put a bit of timber on. Does that count??

I totally agree. Lots of sexy fat guys in that chat

I met my best friend and jerk buddy when I was in sixth grade. We masturbated and had sex for 5 or 6 years. He was a sexy chubby boy. Since then I have a predilection for overweight men.