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Oldbuck55428 Amateur Jackinchatter

153 posts since 2017-04-30
78 year old curious male from BLAINE,Minnesota
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I like to jack off at night when I first get into bed with my wife. She's not into sex anymore so I slip my shorts down and slowly wank myself to sleep. Sometimes I will edge for a while if I'm not tired. Every now and then I will reach climax and cum into my hand and then lick it off and swallow. In the meantime she is just laying there snoring.
I just use thumb and two fingers to work my foreskin back and forth over the head of my cock.
Sometimes I'll lube up prior to going to bed if I know I'll be going at it for a while.
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JJSheffield Skilled Jackinchatter

988 posts since 2015-10-23
bisexual male from Sheffield uk
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Not really, if she knows I'm having a wank she likes to either join in or gets me to finger her as I stroke.
Sheffield area UK pan and anti negativity.
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Dan_Glebitz Skilled Jackinchatter

668 posts since 2009-10-03
73 year old curious male from UK South
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Mine hasn't done sex for years (Menopause) so there's the odd night when a raging hard-on needs attention. I make sure she is sound asleep and facing the other way, get some tissues out the box in the bedside cabinet and the lube. Leave it a minute or so, pull back the covers and have a long gentle wank. Bit of guesswork where the spunk ends up, but the warmth on my body is a clue.

The great turn on is having a sneaky one and not getting caught. I have mentioned in the past I slipped one out in the night and she's never noticed.
If God created anything better than wanking - he kept it to himself.
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tribeca Amateur Jackinchatter

348 posts since 2010-01-29
83 year old homosexual male from NYC
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Usually, where we're home, I just take a midday "nap" if I want to j/o alone. When we've been on a cruise ship, and I've gone a day or two without stroking and I wake up in the middle of the night with a hard-on that just won't go down, I lube up with body cream (kindly provided by the cruise company) and go at it slowly. My partner (a man) never wakes up. I think part of the excitement is knowing he might notice the slight vibrations in the bed and wake up to find out what's going on. (It hasn't happened yet.)
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WhitehawkWanderer Amateur Jackinchatter

294 posts since 2016-12-22
61 year old curious male from Idaho
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Actually, this is my most common way to jack-off these days! I like doing it this way for a variety of reasons. My wife can be a heavy sleeper, and she has grown very hard of hearing the last couple of years. I like it in that I know exactly where she is and I know that she won't catch me in the act. If I jack-off when she leaves the house, I run the risk that she might come home earlier than expected, and then I'd be busted. I have had some very close calls. Lately I just wait until I hear her snoring, then I pull out my cock and softly and slowly stroke it. This soft edging may last more than 30 minutes or close to and hour, and the orgasms from this slow stimulation are amazing! I usually cum into a dirty sock to avoid detection. And I always get some good sleep after a good cumming, so I figure it helps me rest. I just love it!
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1088 posts since 2015-04-17
56 year old heterosexual from Louisville, KY.
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Most women I have been with know I jack off and don't mind if I jack off in their presence, but I have sneaked a stroke next to a few women without them knowing.
Love stroking with the women in person, on the phone or on webcam.
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1245 posts since 2011-10-17
82 year old heterosexual male from Upstate NY
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I have done it about 10 times. She caught me the first time and was pissed and walked out of the room. Since then she has not caught me or she just pretends to be asleep. I have done it about 3 times on a cruise so there was nowhere for her to go. If she woke up now I think she would just Ignore me and pretend to be asleep. I do like to JO while she is asleep. I do not even need any porn or toys to cum which I usually need them to get off.
Love to JO to porn
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76plus Amateur Jackinchatter

128 posts since 2018-12-13
83 year old bisexual male from Bloomfield NM
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I jack of in bed almost every night some times my wife knows sometime not.
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fundriver11 Skilled Jackinchatter

873 posts since 2011-08-20
58 year old heterosexual male from Michigan
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Oldbuck55428 said:
I like to jack off at night when I first get into bed with my wife. She's not into sex anymore so I slip my shorts down and slowly wank myself to sleep. Sometimes I will edge for a while if I'm not tired. Every now and then I will reach climax and cum into my hand and then lick it off and swallow. In the meantime she is just laying there snoring.
I just use thumb and two fingers to work my foreskin back and forth over the head of my cock.
Sometimes I'll lube up prior to going to bed if I know I'll be going at it for a while.


Awesome story. I do this oftenstrokecockcockcock
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873 posts since 2011-08-20
58 year old heterosexual male from Michigan
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I have been jacking off in bed next my sleeping wife for our entire 35 year marriage. Early on I was very cautious and did not want to get caught. Now our kids are grown and out of the house and now I am constantly horny and naked as often as possible. I have always taken advantage of home alone time. But now I became bolder and start stroking under the covers while my wife is awake reading or playing on her phone. I sleep naked and always throw off the covers when she falls asleep. I stroke until I have an urge to get vigorous - so I sit up in bed and put the lamp on low so I can see my cock. I will then openly stroke until she stirs, then I just sit there with a throbbing boner until she falls deeper to sleep and then start pounding, jacking, and thumping my cock. I like to keep this cycle up for a few hours. She catches me occasionally and will usually take over and stroke for a few minutes then falls back asleep. That is my favorite sweet spot when I will open stroke and hopes she wakes up again.

I do this a couple time per week usually. strokecockcock
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Shvdmale Skilled Jackinchatter

689 posts since 2015-12-15
72 year old bisexual male from Texas
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I used to jack off in bed when she was asleep (I thought) but later after we split up, she admitted that she was faking sleep and knew I was stroking my cock. I know she knew I was stoking in the sleep in my 18 wheeler because she didn't want to have sex so she would sit up front and I would lie in the bunk, watch porn and stroke. I've even fucked my fleshlight hands free in the bunk while she was on her computer in the front. It was a huge turn on knowing she was there while I shot my load!
Always naked and horny...STILL looking for JO bud.
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kumeater Novice Jackinchatter

86 posts since 2020-07-13
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I jacked off 1 time laying next to my sister in the tent we were sharing while camping.
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oakman Novice Jackinchatter

72 posts since 2020-01-08
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I do it all the time. She is a heavy sleeper and i often play on my phone so she is used to the light. Our matress is super firm and doesn't move when i jack so i watch porn and jerk off without bothering her. I often, for convenience, keep a couple of paper towels in the pillowcase for cleanup as the tissues next to the bed are not up to the jobwink
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87 posts since 2019-09-09
67 year old curious male from Leics
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No, she knows
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A GF did this once with me. It was incredibly erotic.

She thought I was asleep so I let her do the whole thing before I fucked her.
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