OK I'm 60 now and have sexual issues. First I cant get a hard on without the help of viagra or cialis. Next is I cant seem to come even though my GF is 58 and smoking hot. Shes 103LBS and to be honest I prefer big breasted women but although she is very flat chested below the waist is she playmate material w no stretch marks despite 4 kids and a little firm ass that practically fits on one hand and very pretty. Most guys would die to fuck her even guys half her age hit on her

So whats the problem? I cant seem to nut! She gets on top and rides me like a champ, she comes and yet Ive only came 3 times in 9 months. I usually get her off eating her. Like I said I miss big jugs in front of me but this is getting ridiculous. And when we change positions to do it doggy style my boner goes down in the 20 seconds it takes to re-position

So is it my age? Any suggestions? All I fantasize is her sucking 2 guys off while riding me and taking another cock in her ass and that only marginally helps. Argghhh very frustrating

I feel you pain bro!! Getting older sure cut my activity down!! Lucky to cum once a week and only through masturbation.

Are you looking at a lot of big tit porn or just porn in general? If so, you could have porn-induced ED. I'm pretty sure I do and it takes my wife telling me fantasies related to the porn I watch to get me off. (Of course that isn't an issue now that we don't do anything, but that's a different story.)

It's something to look into because you can fix matters, but it entails giving up the porn. Easier said than done, but ultimately it's what you find more important---wanking to Big Uns or fucking the shit out of your GF and shooting a huge load in her.

It is definitely a challange the older you get. I find I can get hard without a lot of effort, but can't maintain it without constant stimulation. And even though I get hard it sometimes is almost like the hardness you get when your bladder is too full. So it's like you're erect and you've got that old familiar feeling in your boy parts telling you your glands are full of the gooey stuff and need releasing. But you can't seem to get the right motion of cause the release. I think with me it's frequency. When we're younger we can cum even if we don't shoot anything. I find that if I don't have enough semen I can't cum. Today, is not that day. I've been 10 days without and everything it full, but I don't feel like I can stroke a few times and release. But as I stay on here and watch some videos and pictures there is a point I feel it in the base of my dick. When that starts I've only got so much time till I start getting blue balls and things hurt. I know blue balls are a real thing because when I've gotten them and then came I shoot much harder. So I think it just takes more to get us fully aroused as we age.

I have this issue. I can get rock hard for some hard core nasty porn but I seldom get full hard with the wife unless she tells me she wants a big cock in her pussy or she tells me how small my cock is. Then I get boned up pretty good.

We don't fuck often so it's not a problem. It also takes me forever to cum. I am a chronic masturbator and I cum at least once and sometimes twice a day.

Maybe masturbating and Cumming 2x per day is the problem

I am 15 years younger than you guys and I recon if I came 2x in one day I would struggle on a 3rd

I think masturbating can cause problems like you can cum without even getting properly hard but its a problem if the wife is a bitch and Denys sex

So she might expect perfect performance once or twice a year with no practice

I recon couples with a healthy sexual relationship dont have so many issues

Well the more you try the more the psychological pressure.
I had a similar problem and found that by jerking off with guys on other sites I found several things.
1 many other guys had had a similar problem
2 jerking with guys took the pressure off some came quickly some never. It just did not matter, the enjoyment came from sharing the experience
3 To start with I was taking a blue pill which helped but after a couple of months I rarely took one because my self confidence had been rebuilt.
So think of making changes like the above and see what happens!

So true. Very much a challenge as we age

Has she shared this desire with you?

sometimes my hand gets tired jacking then i quit for an hour or so, maybe a day

Have you recently started a new medication? I had that problem with a medication I was on.

Try a cock ring around your balls and cock.nice and tight,it keeps your penis filled with blood until you release the spunk.I use one for wanking.you're lucky you've got a gf.good luck!

So three things, first, on your cum and volume, (a) hydrate more, fluid intake is the key to volume and (b) either jack your cock less or edge it, i.e. jack it right up to the point of no return and don't cum. You get the enjoyment of jacking but save up your cum for the hottie. Second on the hardness angle, check with your doc on the dosage of viagra or cialis. You just may be on a low dosage and need to up it. Third, whatever the dosage, cock rings are your friend. I have a large collection and have been using them to great fun and success for 20+ years. I tell all newbies to start out with a silicon ring that fits snuggly but comfortably around the base of your cock and balls when soft. When you get hard the feeling and the sight of your rock hard cock is a game changer. Again while sizing is important to get that just right fit, if you pick up a three ring silicon cock ring "starter kit", try each on and one of them should get you at least in the ball park. Again by using silicon cock rings, they flex at the right moment allowing you to shoot cum while wearing them. Last relax, this happens to everyone, just use these tips and tricks and enjoy the ride with your hottie!

Possibly a visit to your urologist is in order. Testosterone applications could help. I have been on various treatments, etc for the last 30 years.

It happens with age. I've cut down on how often I wank, just to twice a week mostly which helps. A couple of the guys here have recommended a cock ring, so I might well try that.