Was wondering if anything goes on under the table or at the bar in gay bars.
Is it ok to sit or stand next to a guy and maybe place your hand on his leg or thigh? How do you tell if someone is interested?
I've seen guys with their hard cocks out and jacking at the urinals, is it ok to approach and ask if you can help?

Isn't that the whole point of a gay bar? I've got a buddy who is gay and we get together sometimes for intimate time. I asked him what it was like to be dating as a gay man and he said it's a meat market. So many guys are just looking for a quick hookup, sometimes right in the bar practically in the open. He's about my age and he's met younger guys, like in their 20s or 30s, and it's difficult to find any kind of relationship because they are just looking to get off.

So, that being said, I'd just approach a guy who looks tasty to you and start talking. I think you'd find out pretty quickly what is going on.

I saw a girl suck a guys cock on the dance floor in an 80s themed gay bar, in London over 10 years ago and that was pretty hot. Other than that I have had guys rub themselves against me, I was not looking for attention as I am married and was there with friends, but it felt pretty good.

It really depends on the bar and its atmosphere. Most gay bars are just spots to gather, drink, and hang out. Nowadays it feels like there's a lot less cruising, but when there are hookups it's usually not out in the open. But there are bars that have back rooms or basement areas specifically set aside for messing around. They're not in the main bar area, but still somewhat public.

Couple bars i seen down in Key West, where it is blatantly right out in the open in a outside back area. Was kinda shocked when i seen it.

or hit up the restroom, i'm sure you'll find lots of action there too

would love to sucked, rimmed, or fucked while sitting at a bar

1st time was in a gay bar...about 20mn after I arrived ...