Haven't had any luck on BateCrew either. Everyone is too far away or married and can't get away and....

I know the frustration you feel. Try silverdaddies (dot) com. I found my regular bud there a couple of years ago. You might be surprised how many potential bate or suck buds are living near you. If you can't find any, there is always the webcam/Whereby. Cam privately. You can join me if you want.

I prefer a "cam and mic buddy" that has some sort of profile or info available. Maybe a pic even. Not really a "spin the wheel" to see who you are connected with kinda guy.
I'd like to add PalTalk to your list of places to find bate buddies.

I like whereby. The days of the porn cinem,a are gone now. We had a Ya... Boston masturbation group, but that's gone too.

Have you tried Sniffies yet

sniffies is good

doublelist
sniffies
local ABS

added those to the list. Here is the updated list:

BateCrew.com

BateWorld.com

Jackinchat.com

DoubleList.com

fap-roulette.net

SilverDaddies.com

bibritain.co.uk

sniffies.com