My wife was pissed and she left the room. We were married about 30+ years when it happened and I do not now she taught when she caught me. Was she surprised thinking I did not masturbate or disappointment or what? Do you have any idea how your wife felt when she first caught you JO?

It was ugly for me. I don't think she's ever forgiven me. Having said that I now masturbate more than ever.

my wife has never caught me.

Mine would say, "Having fun" and leave the room.

Caught?? its not a problem for either of us

First time was not that she caught me in the act - she found my stash of porn mags. That was over 30 years ago. I came home from work and she was pissed. She has never caught me masturbating. After that incident it has been dont ask dont tell. But later in our marriage I started being openly naked around the house. She finds me with a boner often. Now it is routine. Covid really changed the dynamics as we were forced to be together alone for months.

I have secretly masturbated my entire life since I was about 5yo. Glad that I can be open now.

When she was too tired to fuck during the week I used to wank next to her while touching her pussy.
After that she didn't mind me having a wank while she was around.
Her sister caught me once but she was fine too, not sure my wife would be if she found out,

My wife often fingered herself to orgasm whole I watched and she encouraged me to wank off for her. But it is not the same as being caught wanking unexpectedly.
The first time I heard her on the stairs and didn't have time to cover up. She looked surprised them smiled and said, having fun ? She stayed to watch and got me to show her the tits pics ?I had been looking at, asking me why I liked each woman. Told her, I like her huge tits, this girls big hips. This one is pretty. But when I was ready to cum I finished while looking right at my lovely understanding and hot wife.

She saw me lots after that but it wasn't caught in the same way since I let her catch me. Until I was wanking off tell stories on jackinchat and she walked in. She looked surprised at me chatting with guys and wanking but stayed and suggested things to say to them as I wanked myself.

She also caught me jerking off while wearing her pretty panties, I was embarrassed but she loved that and gets me to wear them lots now.

I wish I could catch her masturbating but never have, yet.

Honeymoon. New York, April, 1976. We'd been married three days and she pled 'sore', which I respected and observed. And since we'd been at it like bunnies and she was a virgin at the start, I'm sure she really was. She wasn't happy though at finding me in the bathroom with a copy of Penthouse Forum from the hotel gift shop. Fortunately, that turned into her first blowjob and swallow and we were both happy. I was almost ready to cum and lasted all of maybe thirty seconds. I sent a letter about it to Forum, but they didn't print it.

Divorced two years later. She found a stupid man with a much bigger cock, a bigger bank account, left me, married him, and spent about a decade looting him before moving on again. I think she's on husband number five now. But living in a trailer park in Kansas. I like Kansas, but it would take love for me to live that close to Wichita, so I hope this time is for love.

When we were dating, my to-be wife asked me to undress and masturbate for her. She had never seen a male masturbate or ejaculate and was curious. I would do anything for her so I did. It was scary but also indescribably erotic because she loved it. Later she asked me to do it again and I became comfortable asking her if I may. In fact we never stopped. Masturbation is a big part of our sex life. Here's a recent video. There are more links on my page. http://sendvid.com/i0qlucmp

Great video - thanks for sharing!

I masturbated in front of my wife on our second date. I was super hard and horny from making out and needed relief that she wasn't ready to provide yet. She told me she'd never see a man masturbate before and asked if she could watch.

I have never hidden the fact that I masturbate, but it was a shock to her just how much I did it. She used to masturbate regularly, about two to three times a week. I, on the other hand, was 3 times a day when we met. She would call me and I'd tell her I was masturbating. I remember her saying, "Is that all you do?".

The first time she "caught" me, as in she didn't know I was masturbating when she walked in, was when we first started living together. I had a porn movie on and was totally gooned out in the recliner when she came home. I never heard the door open. All I heard her say was, "Dear God!". It jumped about three feet and she said, "what if someone would have been with me? You need to put a sign on the door or something."

She was ultra pissed. Shes never gotten over it and it was more than 30 yea4s ago. She thinks i quit. Silly girl.

We were recently married, and I had forgotten to lock the bathroom door. I was standing nude in front of the full length bathroom mirror, left hand jerking, right hand on nips, when my wife walked in. Fortunately, she laughed, and we enjoyed straight sex afterwards. I think it would have been a completely different story had she found my gay porn collection, safely locked in my desk.

My wife has caught me a couple of times. The first time didnt go down well at all. She had gone to bed early and I took advantage, I dropped my pants and knelt down in front of the sofa looking at some photos, I was so busy wanking away I didn't notice her walk in behind me and stand looking over my shoulder as I shot my load over photos of her sister!

She swore quite a bit and kicked me in the arse but eventually forgave me. But its never forgotten and If she notices I click like on a picture of her on fb she says things like "another one for your wank bank"