Mid 50s and would like some advice and tips on a first meeting to suck very first cock !! Very excited and nervous at the same time !!

I've only done it a few times, and I used to drink at the time. I was really nervous. Just go make sure you know what you want to do and don't do anything you aren't ready for. Good luck my friend.

A couple of times it was very awkward - we met just to get to know each other a bit first - and it was very strange talking sex with a stranger - but with those 2 nothing happened.

One guy invited me over to his house. He met me at the door naked. That one went much easier!

Don't OVERTHINK it before you get together.
Get naked, sit next to each other on the couch, watch some porn, get hard.
Start stroking him.
Get on our knees between his legs, keep stroking.
Lean over, lick the precome from his dick using just the tip of your tongue.
Do what comes naturally.

Be sure to give us a report afterwards, regardless of what happens.

Just jump right in. If you try and overthink it, you'll get nervous and back out. And treat that cock like it was your own. How would you like yours sucked? I tend to focus on the head a bit too vs. treating it like a big popsicle.

If you're nervous, take your time and find someone who will communicate a while with you first and make sure you're both on the same page. Let them know it's your first time and what you expect from him (should he expect to cum in your mouth or not), and make sure he's ok with that.

I'd try and find a more experienced guy for your first time, so you won't have to deal with the possible awkwardness of his dick not getting hard or not being able to cum for you. I know my first time just masturbating with a guy I was nervous I'd have trouble getting hard, but he turned out to be real easy going at my dick boned up pretty quick.

Don't worry once you get his cock in your mouth you will know what to do. Sucking another man's cock is a so natural thing to to do.

be sure to fondle his balls, its a wonderful feeling

You are in for an incredible treat. This will probably be the hottest Sexual experience of Your life. I truly Love to Worship another Mans Cock. It is such an Incredible, Nasty Taboo, that it is Beautiful. You will understand this after You experience it.
In My opinion the two most important Tips are:
#1 Relax and just enjoy doing this to His Cock. and
#2 TAKE YOUR TIME! Do not be in a hurry. Do every thing You can to make this experience last as long as possible. The first couple times I Sucked Cock. I just wasn't paying attention and suddenly He Came. Him exploding in My mouth was an incredible experience, but it left Me feeling like I missed out. It went way too quick. I wanted it last an hour or more. So for several weeks after those experiences, I spent a lot of time disappointed in what happened. I thought about it constantly. It just happened so fast. When You are down on Your knees, with Your face between another mans Legs. Your Lips and Tongue wrapped around His throbbing Cock. Feeling the pulse of His heart through His boner, on Your Lips. It is such a complete mind Fuck. That it is almost impossible to think. All Your senses are over loaded. The Feeling of His Cock in Your Mouth. The Taste and Smell of His excited Cock, and Hearing His heavy breathing and Groans. The experience is so over whelming that it is almost impossible to think. But YOU MUST PAY ATTENTION TO WHAT IS HAPPENING. If You don't pay close attention to what is happening, it will be over way too soon. You will be left wondering what You could have done to make it last longer. Well You can make it last longer. The longer it last, the more enjoyment You will both get out of it. So start out ahead of time with some communication. Tell Him that You would like to make this last as long as possible. Tell Him to use some self control and to tell You when He is getting close. I would also tell Him that He can Cum in Your Mouth, eventually, but that You would like to see how many times He can get close to Cumming before He actually Cums. That way he doesn't feel like he has to trick You into letting Him Cum in Your Mouth. Now You can work together, to tease His Cock to the very brink of Climax, several times. You need to pay close attention also. If it seems like He is getting out of control. Then its time for You to Slow Down or even Stop for a bit. You can also take this time to Lick and Suck on His Balls for a bit. Then when You can sense that He is back in control, You can return to Licking and Sucking His throbbing Cock. You know how intense it feels as You get close to Climax. Well that's what You want Him to experience, for as long as You can make it last. The longer You can Tease His Cock like this, the more intense pleasure His Cock will experience. The longer You can keep His Cock on the very brink of Climax, the more intense His pleasure will become. The longer this can continue, the more intense His eventual Climax will be. So pay close attention to the growing tension in His body. Feel the tremble in his entire Body. Look up to see the expressions on his Face. Hold His balls in one hand. So You can feel them tighten up against the base of His Erect Shaft. Remember, You want to make this a intense as possible, and You want it to last as long as possible.
Eventually You will both decide that its time. Then You want to change Your Oral assault on His Cock to Feather Soft and as Slow as possible. You will see this agony in His eyes. His entire body will be Tense and Trembling. His Balls will be tucked up tight against the base of His Boner. He will begin to shudder and maybe even whimper. Then suddenly with a deep groan, His body will jerk in agony. As His swollen Cock contracts wildly, pumping Jet after Jet of Thick Hot Sperm into Your Mouth. You need to hang on tight. Make sure You keep His Cumming Cock buried Deep in Your Warm Sucking Mouth. Savor the Taste and Texture of His Thick Hot Sperm. Feel each jet of Cum hit Your Tongue. Experience this incredible Nasty Taboo to its Mind blowing limits.
Continue to tenderly Lick and Suck His Cock until it begins to soften. Once He begins to relax. Pull Your Mouth off of His Cock. Look up into His Eyes and open Your Mouth to show Him the Huge Load of Hot Sperm He just shot into Your Mouth. You need to let Him see it. Then as He watches, tilt Your head back and slowly Gulp his Sperm down Your throat.
This will be one of the best Blow Jobs He has ever experienced, and it will leave You trembling for an hour or more. I have actually been so excited after this, that I Came in My own Pants with out any touching. This can be such an incredible experience. You will remember it forever. Now go out and find a nice Hard Cock to Suck.

such a wonderfully erotic description !

Wow wow thank you coah

Trout dog is right - I have had come of those experiences where I spent so much time focusing on making sure he was getting the best blow jobs of his life, that when he finally came, so did I and without even touching my dick. One of the best orgasms I've ever had!

i got hard just reading this