On the outside, I am a quiet, easy going, down to earth guy. I am a happy and quiet husband in your typical marriage. I enjoy going out for drinks with my wife and her friend and his husband. I enjoy the outdoors. I am on the introverted side and enjoy reading and pc gaming. Any yet, despite the appearance in the public eye, I am a masturbation addict. My wife would be shocked to find out how much time I spend in secret playing with myself, looking at porn, and fantasizing. My friends and family who see me as a quiet respectable guy would be equally shocked to realize that I jerk to so many filthy degrading porn videos and fantasies that would make them blush. As a guy who grew up highly religious and conservative its one of my biggest kept secrets. And more than that, I love the idea of masturbating together with other buds. Does anyone else feel the same or have a secret side to them that no one else knows about? My skype is syntheticdreams2077 and discord is Replicant#1185

I've seen you before.you're on a masturbation site.we do what you do.we keep it secret from our wives and gfs.don't worry ,all your friends are probably the same.

I think most of us married guys here... are here because our wives don't know and are not open to everything we want... i too masturbate when i can use toys when alone shared some nudes as well.. wife would never understand or be cool with it

i like to dress sometimes and masturbate
or nude i have many fantasies stories i use

I totally agree with you.

There are so many of us out there. I would think at least 90% of all guys masturbate. Some of us, like myself, have all kinds of fantasies of what we desire. I for one what to jack off with other guys.

Sex was never talked about in the house I was raised. Except after my mother caught me and my blue-steel hardon being mortified in a glance usually reserved for holocaust level realities. My father said to be sure to ask him if I have any questions. Sure, Mr. Angry Man behind the newspaper looks like a good shortstop for all these feelings to field questions about. Sexuality has been given the boot heel since the Mayflower. So many common stories and we're going on about under the radar. It's gotta change

Wife knows about the masturbation, and has seen a little of the porn. She's occasionally seen a Fleshlight insert drying on a towel. It's a "secret side" from friends, coworkers, and some other family. Some of the hard core, kinky porn would really surprise them.

You are among friends here.

You could almost have been describing me.

The only difference is that my wife knows I masturbate, and supports it. She doesn't know how much I jack off though, and doesn't know I visit sites like this

What I love about the thread is the armoring of male competitiveness goes translucent. There is a fellowship among men that want to live free and happy - Sex plays a big role in that.

It sounds to me like you are completely normal.

I'm a chronic masturbator and it is an important part of my daily life. I spend hours a day masturbating and always will. My wife basically stopped having sex with me years ago, but I honestly don't mind as I'd rather masturbate anyway.

buddy, that's me all over. Have always masturbated, wife has no idea, LOVE masturbating with other men online swapping pics and fantasies...sometimes, depending on the other man, i've also enjoyed mic/cam chat as I masturbate and explore hot kinky fantasies...

Same. Always looking for longterm chat with guys in same situation.

Wife knows some of my fantasies and, after lots of tension and arguments initially, she has come to terms with the fact that men wank (although doesn't know exactly how much or what some of my more risque fantasies are).I

In short, it's totally ok to wank a lot - and totally ok not to divulge.